I dedicated my whole life to him!

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t also the purely material component. If a woman has never worked and was only concerned with her husband, home, and children, then in new circumstances she has to re-acquaint herself with the world, interact with people, and look for herself in new social roles. The question “Who am I?” can be quite difficult, especially if you have been positioning yourself exclusively as a “wife” for decades.A life dedicated to the comfort of a loved one… This is true love… Romance… Or just a life scenario?It’s very nice to believe in selflessness, but it just so happens that we, people, one way or another try for our own good. And that’s okay! Everything is complicated by the fact that sometimes we deceive ourselves and deceive others.Agree, “I dedicated my whole life t

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o him because of love , ” sounds much more noble than “I was terribly afraid of life, independence, responsibility and got married to protect myself from all this, but decided to present it as a sacrificial gift, for which I’ll still be owed money.”Karpman gave this a very precise definition: Stalking Victim.Victim because my husband abandoned me, Persecutor because “he is to blame for my unfulfilled life.”It hurts. It’s complicated. It’s difficult. But it’s up to you to decide whether to continue playing this game, or get out of it, grow up and learn to be honest with yourself. Endless walks along the Karpman triangle are not as exciting as the opportunity to choose your reactions, decisions, and listen to your feelings.</article></body>

I dedicated my whole life to him!

I dedicated my whole life to him! She was faithful to him! All she did was take care of his comfort, so that no unnecessary worries would prevent him from building a career and following his chosen path. I surrounded him with comfort, warmth, an atmosphere of calm and serenity! I gave up my career, my friends, my hobbies, everything! How the shadow followed him to make him comfortable! How could he do this to me! Yes, he owes me to his death! What instead of gratitude? Divorce!

More than once I have heard different variations of similar stories. When a woman suddenly found out about her husband’s desire to end the relationship and was absolutely unprepared for this, I am not only talking about the psychological, but also the purely material component. If a woman has never worked and was only concerned with her husband, home, and children, then in new circumstances she has to re-acquaint herself with the world, interact with people, and look for herself in new social roles. The question “Who am I?” can be quite difficult, especially if you have been positioning yourself exclusively as a “wife” for decades.

A life dedicated to the comfort of a loved one… This is true love… Romance… Or just a life scenario?

It’s very nice to believe in selflessness, but it just so happens that we, people, one way or another try for our own good. And that’s okay! Everything is complicated by the fact that sometimes we deceive ourselves and deceive others.

Agree, “I dedicated my whole life to him because of love , ” sounds much more noble than “I was terribly afraid of life, independence, responsibility and got married to protect myself from all this, but decided to present it as a sacrificial gift, for which I’ll still be owed money.”

Karpman gave this a very precise definition: Stalking Victim.

Victim because my husband abandoned me, Persecutor because “he is to blame for my unfulfilled life.”

It hurts. It’s complicated. It’s difficult. But it’s up to you to decide whether to continue playing this game, or get out of it, grow up and learn to be honest with yourself. Endless walks along the Karpman triangle are not as exciting as the opportunity to choose your reactions, decisions, and listen to your feelings.