I Could Be The One…
Monday Prompt: I don’t date, I elevate
Do you have this thought when you invite someone out?
Or you just want to “score”?
Do you have a list, just to brag in your circle of “friends”?
These questions above are for both genders (or more, I don’t want to be insensitive, but every time I look for the acronym, it’s bigger);
What is dating?
We live in an era where we can have an app on our phone showing us girls, singles or not, available around us…I’m not going to lie, I tried my luck on these apps, but I failed every time…
I know I’m an introvert, but thinking about the past and the ladies I invite for a coffee (just coffee), I realize that I’m not as introverted as I think I am…
I think the best date is when we don’t know we are on a date…
I don’t have much experience in the dating scene, I just do what I think is right, and I remember one time after the date, the girl said “I’ve never had a date like this”.
At the moment, I was proud, but then, I felt ashamed…I don’t think I did a lot, I just invited the girl to a concert, dinner first, during the day we were supposed to visit the city (we prefer to stay in the car, to kissing each other), then, after the concert, we went dancing, and then, sleep on the car (just sleep), looking to the stars. It was only our first date, but I think I was pretty basic, and then she said that, and I “Whaaat?!” - How much is the concert ticket? She asked. - Hm? I invited you … moreover, this was a date, you don’t have to pay anything. I answered.
She then told me, her ex-boyfriend always asked for her share of the bill.
I think I was a present from Karma to her…
I mean, I had less than four hours of sleep, because I left work at 4:00 am, and I just had brief parts in my mind of what the date was going to be like.
And this episode was way before I had my van, and now, I also have trust issues, so, my ideal date is to invite someone and cook for her, somewhere far away.

