I Asked My Partner to Slap Me and I Liked It
Am I strange for that?
I feel like my relationship has been very stagnant the last few days. If I were to describe it, it would be like walking into an abandoned house filled with cobwebs and mold. Not cool, right? The causes of this are probably the small arguments that my partner and I have been having over the last 20 days — The problem is that I don’t know exactly what to do to change the course of this game. So, as a last choice, I decided to ask a specialist (or something similar) for help.
“The situation must be serious for you to ask for professional help”, you must be thinking that, right? Well, not exactly — After all, I found a cheaper and more fun solution to do this. As? Asking my funniest and most loyal friend for advice.
I thought to myself, “If all I need is a fun, honest conversation, then why not do it with someone I trust and enjoy being with?”
So I picked up my phone, dialed my friend’s number, and said: “Friend, I have some strong gossip to tell you and in return, you can help me with some personal advice. Accepted?”
She accepted right away. “Come home tomorrow afternoon and have a drink with me and talk a lot.” I love how she is so welcoming and fun lol.
Very well, the next day I went there to tell her some really strong gossip about some people we don’t like, and at the end of our personal “podcast” about who speaks worse about whom, I mentioned that I needed her help to resolve some issues. personal problems at home.
“Friend, I did some stupid things and my relationship with my partner is not going well. I needed to vent this to someone and ask for some advice that would help me solve this problem.”
First, she asked me what I had done and why I had done it. Afterward, she scolded me, saying that I was a very naughty woman who got into trouble with everything, lol.
Basically, I told her that I had gotten into a fight with my partner because he liked a random girl’s photo on social media. It wasn’t any sexy photo or anything like that, but I didn’t like it for any particular reason. The problem is that later I discovered that this girl was his cousin and I felt bad about myself for creating all that confusion.
But that is not all. I would say the biggest problem is that I can’t talk to him and apologize about it — Maybe I’m too proud to do that. I don’t like my way of doing things, but unfortunately, it’s not something that can be changed overnight.
My friend listened to the whole story, gave me some nice tugs on the ear, and gave me some guidance: “If you can’t say sorry looking in the eye, then appeal a little to the erotic side of things.”
At first, I didn’t understand well, but then she explained. “Whenever I have a really serious fight with my boyfriend, I can’t say sorry either, it gets stuck in my throat and nothing comes out — So whenever something like that happens to me, I try to resolve it in bed.”
It was then that she suggested this crazy and intense idea to me: “Why don’t you try that spanking fetish and pretend you’re a woman regretting her mistakes while he spanks you?”
Wow, I was honestly curious about this idea. It would be like putting on a play, but 100x more exciting. All said and done, I took advantage of the fact that he wasn’t home until 9pm that night and created a perfect scenario for us to have fun.
Low lights, ambient sound with a special playlist for “jokes”, wine, and especially eye-catching sensual clothing. As soon as he saw me like that the mood became lighter — I dragged him to the room and said: “Today I’m all yours.”
After playing a lot with foreplay and basic positions, I suggested trying the fetish that my friend advised me. I said something like this to him: “I want you to dominate me and slap me.” and from then on it’s another story.
While he performed that fetish on me, I apologized and said that I was a very bad woman and that I needed to be reprimanded. It was an experience that I enjoyed much more than I imagined — I didn’t know I could enjoy a fetish like that, it was simply incredible.
In fact, I felt much lighter when we finished “playing” — And the best part, I was able to truly apologize to him post-coitus, while we talked in bed after the shower. It was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. It was totally worth asking my best friend for that advice, lol.
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