I Am Tired Of Hearing About Will and Jada!
When you are a superstar, movie star, V.I.P., whatever you are doing to push you into the public’s eye, your life is no longer your own.
I am tired of hearing about Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith.
Let them work out their problems and fix their marriage. There are so many comments about them and their lives. What Will should do, shouldn’t do, will do, and won’t do. The same for his wife. Many of these remarks are cruel and insensitive, aimed at the female.
Many who criticize have forgotten that there are children involved. Their words are harmful to the children, no matter their age.
What about the children? Why are they always forgotten?
Yes, life demands they pay for their parent’s mistakes, but many of these remarks are vicious and dangerous.
When you are a superstar, movie star, V.I.P., whatever you are doing to push you into the public’s eye, your life is no longer your own.
Okay, your life is your own, but you cannot live it your way. You cannot be yourself.
By being someone else, you are denying yourself true happiness.
As a female, I studied my world as I grew.
Different written and unwritten laws are set aside for females in all areas of life.
I learned early that I would face instances that would force me to be someone else. I would have to develop one or two personalities.
Wealth and fame help to create challenging and sometimes dangerous circumstances.
The poor have no idea that sometimes their lives are better than the wealthy and famous.
Everything is different for males.
Sex and ego play out in our world many times with rewards to the player and consequences to their victims.
From birth, a frame is placed around females with the word victim etched at the top. I realized that prematurely.
When you are in a frame, all eyes will be on you. Add fame and wealth — more looks on you. Some of these eyes are tearing you apart.
You must live your life with honesty, dignity, respect, and everything the world/your fans expect you to do. Your life is no longer yours to live the way you want. The more famous you become, the more Christ-like you will have to be. The real you will have to suppress. That can be dangerous.
Fame is a choice. Many chose it, unaware of its ramifications.
Fame robs you of the human-like traits you were born with.
Cheating, lying, stealing, dishonesty, etc., will be unforgiven, especially if you are a female.
You will be placed on a pedestal and expected to be perfect.
Jada’s cheating will be playing out in the media for a long time. She will not be allowed to forget, nor will her children and husband.
Will Smith is loved and respected by many.
If Will had been the one to cheat, the media would have nothing to ignite the fire they have started that seems to be out of control.
Let humans be humans and learn from their mistakes.
Females should know that their husbands might forgive their indiscretion but accompanied by notoriety, the rest of the world won’t. Your children are pulled into the firestorm your action, choices, and decisions started.
If the media keeps playing out what Jada did, they are making it difficult for her to try and save her marriage.
Females, know your world!
These are people in love. Fame comes with a hell of a price.
Love isn’t the only thing fame destroys, but it’s the most valuable.
Do you think fame is worth the price many humans pay for it?
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