How Women Get You To Reveal Your Investment Level Towards Them

As a man, you need to understand more and more about women, to make your life better with them. I am going to explain how women get you to reveal your scarcity mindset as well as your investment level towards them. The purpose of this article is to help you strengthen your ties with women, and make your relationship purposeful.

First thing, you need to know that, based on your actions, your vocal tone, your mannerisms, and based off the nuances of your speech are going to dictate if she continues to desire you and if she continues to have an attraction for you. This is very sneaky when women do this, they are typically very sneaky about it and they’re covert about it, which means if you’re not able to see this for what it is, you’re probably going to make the mistakes.

You need to understand, what women are looking for. She is not looking at your scarcity mindset towards being able to get other women. She’s trying to get you to reveal your scarcity mindset towards her. So the golden rule is they people only care about themselves. It doesn’t matter who you’re talking to, it doesn’t matter if it’s a girlfriend. Whatever the case may be, the golden rule is to understand human nature that people only really care about themselves. At the end of the day, people do what’s in their own best interest. And I’m telling you this because you have to be aware of that. She doesn’t care about your ability to get other women.

So it’s not about you revealing your scarcity mindset towards not being able to attract anybody else. She wants to know only about her. She wants to know your investment level towards her. She is trying to get you to reveal your scarcity mindset towards her if you have one if you have built an attachment. So what she’s screening for is how scared you are to lose her.

I want you to picture the most beautiful women you know, from the inside and out. Beautiful women are very good at getting you to reveal your scarcity mindset towards them. And here’s why they are typically very feminine. Their voice is typically very sweet and bubbly. They are never argumentative. Typically they never try to do anything that’s like brash or have any behavior that seems rude. And what happens is you think that she could do no wrong since she’s so nice. She is so sweet. She’s so bubbly, she’s so pleasing to be around. You think that she could do no wrong.

You let your guard down and now you’re nice to her. When that happens, here comes the bait and switch. when you do this. She starts to see that you like her, she can tell that you think that she’s pretty. And on top of that now she wants to test for weakness.

She will start to be like, I see how this guy is playing. I see that he likes me. I see his investment level. I see him light up and smile when I’m around him, he’s not showing me indifference, he’s showing me care. So now she wants to test you. There are two separate categories. There’s the category of the woman that you just started seeing and then there’s the category of the long-term relationship and these two tests are very different.

So for women that you just started seeing or maybe let’s say you and a girl just started sleeping together for this type where you guys just started seeing each other. All they do is they will pull back their interest and they will see if you will chase and you will pursue. They pull back and then on top of that, here’s what you’re gonna notice. It’s typically in this order, they are more distant over the cell phone. So they call you less, they text you less. They take longer to reply to your text messages. They take longer to reply to your phone calls. What you’re also going to see is that they’re harder to set dates with and then they appear that they’re busy. This is how their games began.

She can only play games because you revealed your high interest. You didn’t conceal your interest, you showed it. Why did you show it? Because most beautiful women are experts at appearing very sweet, very feminine like they like you for you and that they could do no harm. And then what they do is instantly when they see that you like her, you care about her. You’re nice to her. Here comes the bait and switch and now what happens is she is going to start to test you and make this hard.

She wants to test your interests. How do you pass this in this phase? All you have to do is don’t chase, don’t over pursue, don’t do all those things. What you have to do is just let time and patience show that you’re strong enough to not need communication. For most of the men, It gets really hard when they’ve been in a long-term relationship or the girl that they’ve been seeing is an actual girlfriend. So if you’ve seen a woman for like six months, plus you guys have been dating for a long time, she knows you like her because that’s why you committed to her. You know that she likes you because she is committed to you.

What you’ll notice is she’s typically very feminine in the beginning, which is why you committed to her. But then she will try to get you to show intense care. And this is different because I’m going to show you how this test looks. The way that a woman gets you to show intense care is it’s never direct in an argument. Like there’s never a direct argument or she never directly says something that’s going to try to be rude or try to move you off center.

Let’s say you guys have been dating for six months. She’s never said anything negative to you or about you. She’s very nice to you and that’s why she’s your girlfriend. Then here’s what happens. Something subtle will change where she wants you to believe that she is losing interest. She probably isn’t, but she wants to see how you react. So you’re going to notice maybe one day you’re driving in the car together and you do something or you say something and it’s not even that big of a deal.

She might make a gesture or a remark where she like raises her eyebrows and she looks at you. She goes seriously in that negative tone of voice or you’re gonna notice maybe she just texted you back one day if you guys are talking about something. She goes whatever period and sends it and you’re going to notice it’s like a different energy.

Another thing you might notice is you guys are maybe sitting in your house or your apartment and something happens where it’s not even that big of a deal. Maybe you guys are cooking food together and she looks at you and asks, why are you always like this? It’s typically one comment. So what it is is it’s one comment or it’s one sentence with a vocal, a vocal tone change to express disinterest. So it’s like uh seriously and that’s what she’s gonna try to do. And that’s what she’ll say. This is typically the type of interest indicator test that you get when you’re dating a woman long-term.

Now, the reason why she’s doing this is because she wants to hear you say the magic words. So she has a reason to leave you. The magic word is this. If you’re a man and you’re dating a woman in a long-term relationship, here’s what happens if you say one of these three things or a combination of this when she expresses disinterest towards you if you say the magic sentence, what’s wrong? or similar to this. If you get reactive like this, she’s going to start to lose interest because she can tell that you care about what’s happened now you’ve revealed your care.

She expressed something negative towards you. Now, if you are a man who has options, if you’re a man who let’s say doesn’t care something like that isn’t even going to move you off center, you would laugh it off or not even react or you’d say that’s how I am or something to play it off or it’s just not a big deal. But when she can see that you are now on defense verbally and you’re starting to get reactive, you’ve revealed your investment level, you’ve revealed your care, you’ve revealed that you like her. And now this is where the games start to snowball.

She will play so many games with you over our long-term relationship. All of a sudden her mood changed and she was doing everything to emasculate you. if guys say stuff like this, all this means is that what happens as they were not able to see the bait and switch where she went from nice and pleasing because things were new to all of a sudden getting more comfortable with you.

So now she is more comfortable saying these vocal tone changes and expressing disinterest like, oh seriously or Uh why are you always like this or whatever? She has more confidence to test you in that manner and because you took that, and are accepting it. You took that by getting on defense and you started to get reactive. Now she knows you like her. Now watch the game Snowball, watch her become not interested in intimacy, and watch her become very cold towards you.

This is how women get you to reveal your mindset of scarcity towards them and your investment level. If it’s a woman that you just started dating, she’s going to pull back that interest and see if you care to chase and pursue to keep trying to set dates and keep reaching her through the cell phone. If it’s a long term relationship, she’s going to use a vocal tone change of disinterest as soon as you take that and you go on defense.

Now, she has reason to keep playing games and keep testing you until she finds a better replacement that will satisfy hypergamy.

This was all about in a nutshell how women get you to reveal your scarcity mindset towards them.

Thanks for reading.