How to start a writing habit
So, I’m not writer.
But I was asked recently how I started my writing habit.
Here’s what I shared back.
First of all I just write. I’ve published a number of posts over the years, but have many more in draft mode. Some are embarrassing rambles and some are quotes from books I find inspiring. I try not to censor myself around lack of structure, at least at the beginning.
Secondly, for every hour I spent writing, I spend at least the same time (and often more) editing work. I’m motivated to write out of personal experience because it’s cathartic. I want to write openly and honestly, but also don’t want to look like a hot mess. I want people to enjoy what I write, even if my primary purpose for writing is reflection, especially over things I can’t easily discuss with other people.
I also try to proof my work thoroughly (and yet still typos creep in!) — saving work in draft mode, returning to it a day or two later and printing it out also helps evaluate the work with fresh eyes. I’d also try and find a trusted friend/family member to review a draft post, but finding someone who will be candid in feedback AND patient enough to read the work AND perceptive enough to offer useful insight isn’t easy. 🦄
As stated in previous posts I do think it’s important to be open, honest, candid, vulnerable — our whole selves, but sometimes I feel excrutiatingly exposed writing about the hottest of topics: porn, female aging, the unhelpful habits of some women, the unhelpful habits of some men, why we should stop talking about Agile (and many more soapbox topics). I worry about getting trolled. I worry about risking professional reputation. I worry people will think I’m an arsehole.
All of that said, Upfront has insipired me to keep going, to believe in my voice and to tackle topics important to me. I think this is possible by doing the above three activities: 1) just write 2) ruthlessly edit 3) proof your work.
Just know the more personal the topic, the more exposed you will feel, at least I do, and I suspect this is what inihibits so many of us from writing.
Once we are famous and giving TED talks on vulnerability we can have a good laugh about how nervous this stuff made us feel, but until then, brace yourself for the awkward feels.
Finally, I am a better writer than I was 20 years ago, but the only way to be a good, then great writer is to be a shite one first.
And endure people reading your shite writing, whether they’re close friends or a parter or strangers on the internet.
But don’t just take my word(s) on the matter, here are some other links I’ve found helpful in thinking about writing and language:
Writing Tips from a Writer and Editor
George Orwell’s Six Rules For Great Writing
Corporate Grammar: Passive Voice and the Death of Accountability
The surprising reason why your brand sucks at storytelling, and what to do about it.
Garbage Language | Why do corporations speak the way they do?
The Basecamp Guide to Internal Communication
Also reading this book at the moment, which although isn’t solely about writing, it does have some brilliant communication tips:
