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How to Smartly Say NO to Another Request from Your Boss

And get a win from that

It happened to me, last Monday, to have a full agenda. The company software we use to track tasks and activities was flooded under my name. I had tasks for 3-day's worth of work… to be performed before 6 pm.

When, out of the blue, my boss calls me.

He asks to perform an additional heavy-duty task, underlying its importance.

Now, every worker would:

  • try to impress his/her boss
  • try to not fail
  • try to not complain (I simply don’t do it as a habit)
  • try to not be rude.

Fortunately, I’m working from home 99% of the time, so I can have more (easily) confidence than in face to face meetings. So I gathered some courage and took a couple of minutes to think of the best possible answer. And I found a precious one!

I told him very clearly that my task list was endless but, on the other hand, I was aware of the importance of the new task. So I asked him to

help me rethink the prioritization of the tasks.

Photo from Unsplash, by @krakenimages

In this way, if I couldn’t finish some they would have been the less important ones. In one move, I managed:

  • to show respect for the boss’ requests
  • to be helpful and a valuable worker
  • to be smart and work smartly, trying to figure out priorities
  • to show appreciation for the boss’ opinion and help

Needless to say that he appreciated a lot my approach and helped me reformulate the priorities list, resulting in easier work and a better relationship with the “command chain”.

Get access to my stories and those of other Medium writers for just $5 a month. With no additional cost to you, I will receive half of your payments as a commission: it’s a great way to support me!

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