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eing.</p><p id="bc8d">Finding a life purpose is the modern-day excuse of the lazy. You already know your purpose in life.</p><h1 id="17da">I run after money.</h1><p id="3786">People might hate me for this but I don’t have to care.</p><p id="fa04">Money reduces worries. Money avoids unnecessary struggles. Money buys better feelings that matter more. Money can save someone’s breath from collapsing. Money unlocks freedom.</p><p id="64d1">Freedom to not have to care about spending $2 more for someone’s birthday gift you love. Freedom of not having to worry about medical bills of a family emergency. Freedom to have the confidence to be by your parent’s side when they are in hospital and you don’t yet know why because they never visited the doctor for a checkup.</p><h1 id="c69b">If Reciprocity Is Real, What’s for Your Loved Ones?</h1><p id="3290">You don’t feel or realize this.</p><p id="d971">Imagine laying down straight on the road and 93 buildings falling to your body at a high speed altogether. That’s the pain your mother had to go through to bring you to earth.</p><p id="f6ef">A shock that’s fun and feels good is called orgasm. A shock that’s a pain but feels great is called mother’s love for you you can’t ever fathom.</p><p id="81d6">Your dad and mom suffer throughout their life. They lose their youth, time, passion, dreams— everything for you. In the end, they’ll die and you won’t care. Or when they’re old, you’ll push them to some old-age home and your face to them gets forever rare.</p><p id="e90f">What do your parents expect and get for giving their everything away for you? Think about it.</p><h1 id="78c3">Be the reason for their “real” smile.</h1><p id="a273">A husband and wife smile the least after becoming parents. There, I said it.</p><p id="cb02">Your parents are likely the same. And you know it. You might not know why. Because your smile becomes their smile.</p><p id="e322">How about this? Do whatever you d

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o so you be the reason for your parent’s smile. So you are the reason for their first “real” smile in front of you. So you are the reason for them smiling after a long time. They lost everything for you to you raising you, anyway.</p><h1 id="b0a7">This Is the Worst However</h1><p id="81c1">I always run so much after money and success that I spend the least time with family, even though I am blessed I can. That’s the worst tragedy of my life.</p><p id="50f7">Choose family over money. Then, earn money for the family.</p><h1 id="0039">The First True Purpose of Life</h1><p id="f3b6">Your parents can die anytime without notice. Make them proud of giving you birth at least once.</p><p id="c5a9">All they wanted to do is live their life with you through you because they lost everything for you.</p><p id="da84">Your parents are the VIP person in your life. Not having a life purpose is an excuse. Change it with a VIP excuse: my family is my greatest purpose.</p><p id="ec88">You can choose to stop caring about unnecessary people-pleasing and worry about family-happiness-making.</p><p id="d0be">You don’t need people who make you feel suck in your life, anyway. Your parents are your most precious NFT.</p><p id="6edc">You are doing what you are doing to make them work less. You aren’t as selfish as people say you are.</p><blockquote id="b8bd"><p>I’m not smart. Life makes me smart sometimes. I share the lessons with a personal story in less than 100 words for You.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="a9b6"><p>I don’t know when you’ll need me the most so I’ll post whenever I can best. Yes, I collect your email address because I want You.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="df1b"><p>For subscription: <a href="https://shajedulkarim.substack.com/">You</a> Newsletter. Always active. Always free. Always for You. <a href="https://shajedulkarim.substack.com/welcome">Here you go</a>.</p></blockquote></article></body>

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How to Quickly Get Out of a Rut

When you have lost motivation in life

Nothing excites you anymore. Every day seems the same. You try to get through each day. When the weekend rolls around, it’s not even exciting. Life feels dull and boring. You can’t figure out why you feel this way.

We all go through periods of time where we feel like we are in a rut. You feel unmotivated. You feel unfilled. You want change in your life, but do not know where to start. It happens to the best of us. You are not alone.

Getting out of a rut can be challenging.

Start looking for ways to get unstuck. There are numerous ways to break out of this vicious cycle and move forward.

Here are some ideas that help me quickly get out of a rut.

Disconnect From Social Media

Social media drains your soul. Many times there is really nothing to gain from scrolling through hours of content. You see all these photos of people living their best life. You start asking yourself why you are not happy like them. This is not good for your mental health. You just see a pretty picture and nothing else.

Disconnect from social media. It drains your energy. Focus on living life. The average American spends 3+ hours a day on social media. Unless social media is your profession, it is wasting your time. Social media is hurting your happiness, confidence, and self-esteem. The first step is to unplug.

Take A Solo Trip

Whether it’s a short day trip to a national park or flying abroad to another country, traveling can help you reset your mindset. If you’ve never traveled alone before, take the opportunity to do so. Don’t be afraid to do things out of your comfort zone. Connect with new people and new cultures.

Traveling alone has many benefits. You set your own schedule. You can be completely selfish. It gives you time to reflect alone. You will learn things about yourself you never knew. You will learn how to rely on yourself. You will start enjoying your own company. Traveling alone can be good for your overall well-being.

Call A Friend Or Family Member

Talking to someone always helps. Pick up the phone and call a close friend or family member. Talk about how you are feeling. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable. Don’t be afraid to cry. Lean on their shoulder for support. It’s okay to feel weak.

Your closest friends and family will have your best interest in mind. Keep an open mind even though if their suggestions may differ from yours. Ask them to check up on you occasionally. Work on building a stronger bond with your friends and family.

Rearrange Your Living Space

I’ve found rearranging my living space super helpful in clearing my head when I am stuck in a rut. Declutter your home. Clean under the couches. Reorganize your desk. Buy some new plants. Throw away or donate anything that no longer sparks joy.

Rearrange your living room or bedroom. I recently flipped my living room around and it made my home feel brand new. I swapped the positions of my TV and couch. By doing so, I now have a larger view when looking out my window. It’s refreshing to reset the places where you spend most of your time.

Set Three New Goals

What are three goals you would like to accomplish? Set a goal to achieve this month, a goal for six months, and a goal for one year out. Make sure these are specific, attainable, and measurable goals. These can be related to your career, relationships, physical, or spiritual.

Write your goals down on a piece of paper. Stick it on your wall or your fridge. That way you can see your goals every day. Every morning, read your goals out loud. Do something that gets your closer to your goals each day. Reward yourself to something that makes you happy once you’ve accomplished a goal.

Final Thoughts

Getting out of a rut can be challenging. You feel unmotivated. You feel stagnant.

The first step is recognizing you are in a rut. Then change your routines. Challenge yourself to do something new. Find ways to add excitement back into your life.

Following the above recommendations will help you regain control of your life. It has helped me rediscover my purpose and boost my motivation multiple times.

Keep your head up. You can do it!

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