How to Prepare for A New Kind of Relationship

Start by allowing old beliefs and behaviors to fall away

Welcome to the New Earth

We’re changing our relationship agreements. We’re like children, meeting each other with fresh eyes and an open heart. What we once considered normal doesn’t work for everyone anymore. We’re moving toward collective energy, inclusive and open to change.

Author and holistic counselor Rebecca Dawson talks about the New Earth in her book, The New Human Experience. She’s changed my approach to relationships and life in general, opening me up in immeasurable ways. This article attempts to describe what I read. It’s an amalgamation of my understanding of her message and my personal evolution.

Our connections are shifting out of a search for identity and into Consciousness.

You might connect deeply with a person and stay together for weeks, months, or years. One day your energies shift, and one or both of you no longer wants to stay together. You part ways with no emotional upheaval, no dramatic story attached, and no problem with the separation.

There’s no problem because you’re neutral. Perhaps you’re initially sad, but you move on with little fanfare. You can fall in love with everyone. Being apart isn’t a loss. It’s an energy shift. You appreciate your connection as part of your experience on planet Earth.

Some will want to fight the notion of a free-flowing connection. We’re used to feeling attached. Committed partnerships will remain, but we won’t have attachment and expectation of permanence. Our emotions won’t take us on a wild ride since we live in the present moment. Our feelings will come through, then leave us.

It’s not only because we’re living in an unprecedented time in history. We’ve been changing and shifting for a while now. We’re ready to transform.

As new humans, we’re sloughing off old ways of thinking. We’re no longer coming from a place of individuality. We’re energetically part of a global collective. Our relationships are becoming vastly different than before.

Observe old beliefs and behaviors, then let them fall away

The old relationship paradigm is crumbling. You don’t need to try to change anything. It’s happening without any effort on our part. But observing the changes will help you move through with ease.

You might have had big ideas and plans for your intimate relationship. You’ve pictured finding your one and only soul mate. But everyone can be a soul mate now. No one person is going to satisfy us on their own. Besides, we’ll be limiting ourselves. Be open to connecting with every human. Loneliness and fear of being alone will become nonexistent. You match with everyone on the planet. You’ll stop focusing on attachment to one person.

If you’re going to fall in love with humanity, and fall in love with Consciousness, it means you can fall in love with anyone on the planet.~Rebecca Dawson, The New Human Experience

Don’t try to force anything to happen. Simply watch the show, inside and outside. Your body and spirit are accommodating our multidimensional way of life. With that comes new freedom and ease within your relationships. You don’t have to work at it.

Your memory loss is a gift

You might notice how you’re starting to forget things that once seemed important. You might stop telling those big, dramatic stories about your exes because they’re fading from your memories. We’re renewing ourselves each moment. What we think we liked will no longer spark our interest.

We used to have emotional backlogs to fall back into every time we experienced something perceived as unpleasant or painful. Now, our trauma history will shift. When you feel triggered, remind yourself it’s a memory and not a part of your present. It doesn’t have to have a hold on you anymore. You’re an observer of the feelings, nothing more. Then you can move past it.

You’ve forgotten who you were because the old version of you is starting to disappear. It’s quite refreshing to know we’re brand new again.

Focus on neutrality and the collective

I’m most of my recent articles, I’ve mentioned neutrality in relationships. Let’s revisit the idea of not taking things personally.

When you decide to depersonalize what others do or say, you’re free. You also don’t spend time trying to change or ridicule them. Neutrality makes it a non-issue.

Not to say we don’t still have boundaries. We assert ourselves according to our needs. When others don’t meet them, the relationship takes a different direction or dissolves.

Neutrality takes the complicated feelings out of the equation. Someone will either respect us or they won’t. If not, we can end it or accept what they do offer. There are going to be people acting out, and strong limits of course need to be put in place.

We’re collectively purging what’s no longer serving us. Making decisions based on feelings will eventually phase out. You might feel more emotional for a while, as our feelings have guided us for so long.

We’ll start to follow the collective pulse. Our relationships will reflect this shift. Matching energies will come together. Mismatches will drift apart. None of it is personal.

Final thoughts

When we connect with Collective Consciousness, our old ways of thinking and acting become obsolete. Watch your old patterns fall away and reveal a brand new version of you. What you’ve believed in the past is no longer your truth. You might forget your old identity, because you’re in the process of becoming every day.

Some people will leave, but others will stay. You’re in the space of neutrality, in love with the world. You’re a multidimensional light being, ready for the New Earth. If you don’t believe it yet, you will. I’ll be waiting for you.

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