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ONLINE DATING

How to Navigate the Rough Seas of Dating Online

Like a fearless ship captain, ya heard, Matey?

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Online dating is popular AF, right now, and there is no sight of it letting up anytime soon, but it’s not easy, even though it seems real simple to do on your iPhone.

Choose your dating app, player

In order to win the game you got to get in the arena.

Here are your most popular app options, Dating Player One:

Tinder, Match.com, eHarmony, OkCupid, Bumble, Hinge. Plenty of Fish, Coffee Meets Bagel, J Date

Craft a bad a** profile, stud or studette

First impressions are everything so this is your shot. Get some good photos to show off your best self in a selfie, k?

Make things exciting with crazy photos where you are doing something rad and write a bio that won’t bore anyone. Brag and tell your potential mate how awesome you are. Don’t lie, but do exaggerate your good points. Think positively and you can’t go wrong, really.

You can be honest in your bio, too. Honesty is the best policy, capiche?

Connect and Converse

Again, back to that honesty stuff.

Think about how you can make your convo with others real, fun and also good-natured. Look up a list of questions you can ask on ChatGPT or steal something interesting from some Instagram video you saw that had lots of views. YouTube has plenty of silly content where they ask people on the street silly questions. Take notes on this and start using all the techniques you witness.

Safe Spaces

Oh, yeah!

Don’t share personal info with strangers, meet in public places on first dates, trust your instincts and report scams. Yeah, people get scammed on places like Tinder, so buyer beware.

Get Rejected

If you are not ready for this fun experience you ain’t ready to date, sonny.

Take nothing personally and remember it’s all part of the process. Practice positivity, okay? Don’t cry about this stuff! Really, it’s a numbers game and you will find your number one, soon! Keep going! Winners don’t quit!

Expect Nothing

Pretty simple, but hard to practice.

You must have patience and don’t expect things to take off overnight.

Just have fun

You can do this if you keep a healthy, positive perspective.

Therapy never hurt anybody and getting like a life coach could possibly help you on this dating journey. Otherwise read the Power of Now and watch Sadhguru to try to understand how to deal with the ups and downs of dating. Believe us when we say it will help you get to the top of the mountain top.

You have finally arrived

Pat yourself on the back for getting your feet wet and your hands dirty in the dating pool.

You will grow as a person, experience the highest of highs and the lowest of lows, but most importantly you will meet exciting people and find love, brosef or sistersef!

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