How To Make Money Writing
It’s A Bit Like Saying “How to Lose Your Virginity.”
If you want to lose your virginity, be 17 in a small private school in the South. Confide in a friend that you are nervous about the whole thing and are afraid you’ll be bad at it. Accept her offer when she asks if you “just wanna get it over with.” Be really bad at it. She’s polite and supportive. (Thanks Tori)
Isn’t that helpful?
Be Open To Unbelievably Unique Opportunities
Any time you see a pre-made path to making money as a writer, it’s too late. That ship has sailed. It worked for the first few people to stumble upon it, but if you’re hearing about it, it’s already too late.
That’s not to say that it can’t happen. You just have to be willing to keep your mind open enough for it to happen in ways that you just can’t predict.
My first client came to me through Upwork. I must have sent out 200 proposals before I got a response. I didn’t have any experience, so I told him I would do a free sample of work. On a call, we happened to connect over a shared passion for storytelling and mental health. We started a podcast together. It grew to the #12 podcast in mental health. I used that to leverage other writing opportunities and land on what my storytelling business would look like.
Thanks to his reviews, I started writing bedtime stories for a popular health app. I worked very closely with my two clients, and I discovered I had a talent for uncovering what was brilliant about them, and bringing it to the page.
Then, I launched my website, promising a “spiritual partnership.” Phrasing I found while talking to my clients.
Now, I love helping people discover the storyteller in themselves. I even started doing this with friends and their work.
When I started out, I had no idea that I would do any of this. I uncovered it as I went and in reaction to each present moment. If I had tried to take the “right path” I never would have found it.
Be Humble, But Secretly Delusional
Start small and work for free. Know in your heart of hearts that you are the next great American writer.
This creative business is an odd balance. It is the most humbling thing in the world-the constant rejection, the rocky beginnings — and yet we have to believe that we have something to say, else we wouldn’t be talking.
Find a way to believe both. Don’t worry about the truth of it all. You are exactly who you think you are, for better or worse. Think that you are good.
Pick An Ideal And Aim At It
Pick the sort of person you want to be. Maybe it is a specific person you look up to and want to be more like. Decide what you like about them and aim at that.
It will be incorrect. What do we know? But in order to become a master, we have to start out stupidly. It’s the only way. Perfection is a poisonous illusion.
Once we get going, we will know a little more, be able to pick a new ideal and aim at that. Repeat ad infinitum.
Write For Yourself, Write For Your Audience, Write For Everyone
The right way is somewhere on that spectrum. You don’t know what it is yet.
Try all of them. The important thing is to just write. Get it wrong, learn, and try again.
The world needs more good storytellers badly. It will throw money at you if you find a groove. So don’t worry so much about money in the beginning. Worry about finding your groove.
Originally published at https://www.taylorforeman.com on July 25, 2020.






