How to live happily?

Try This: You Won’t Regret

• Stop living within proximity

Stop limiting yourself and start loosening up. Travel as much as you can to explore places. Meet new people to see how others are living and learn from each other. Listen to others and observe things. Don’t write off relations because there are complexities, work out your relations, and value them. Research about the natural places of your city and adore them and make a point out of it. You will start loving them too. Don’t be bashful and take pictures any place you need, overlook in the event that somebody is seeing you, gain experiences.

Look For Answers

Seek what you want to find. Ask until you get it. Look for it until you find it. Dig deep until you find your purpose. Do experiments and try new things to expand our thinking and learn new things. Reach out for the people you want and ask them out. Get your answers, understand them, analyze and make yourself a better person.

• Do Whatever You Want

This is your life and only you own it. Do whatever you want to and whenever you want to. Listen to critics and learn from them. There is something so liberating in the simple act of stepping off the conveyor belt. Be honest but don’t be rude. You either start living for people and living up to their expectations or start doing what you love and make yourself happy. You don’t have to agonize every time you are doing something. Start to neglect what others think. Eat whatever you crave regardless of what others think and something that makes you happy.

“Do whatever you want, and don’t worry about what everyone else is into”. -Rachel Kramer Bussel

• Stop Half Assing

Stop fearing rejections and start doing experiments. Start accepting failure and learn from it. You need to analyze where the problem is and where you went wrong. Growing your abilities is like baking. You have all the necessary ingredients for making delicious cookies but, you half-assed the execution. You didn’t measure properly, you lazily mix them in the wrong order, forgot to pre-heat the oven and baked them for twice the recommended time. When you pull out the cookies, they look like Donald trump’s hair had a lovechild with sheep dung. You just have to accept that it was your fault, you didn't bake well and learn from it, you can do it better next time.

• Stop Vacationing Start Exploring

Stop taking vacations to rest extra hours. You need to get out of your bed and start exploring around the globe. You can't just sit down and wait for miracles to happen, nothing will happen if you don’t work for it. You have to go out and start exploring new things, for the things you love and you will find something that makes you happy and make you want to do more. That will be the final product.

“TRAVEL FAR ENOUGH, YOU MEET YOURSELF.” DAVID MITCHELL

• Focus On Commitment

You need to be committed to the task you are doing regardless of the fact that you don’t have any motivation. Commitment is key because motivation is not something that is always there. That doesn't mean you will stop working, you can’t because you have committed that you will do it and you can’t give up now. This will make your will power strong and give you the satisfaction of doing work on your own.

“Motivation is what gets you started. Commitment is what keeps you going.” -Jim Rohn

• Appreciate Yourself

Stop blaming yourself, stop degrading yourself and stop torturing yourself. Start loving yourself, start appreciating yourself and start valuing what you do. Keep your self-esteem high and trust yourself. Love your work and promote what you do, don’t be ashamed of your work. Treat yourself whenever you do something good and learn from your mistakes. When you start loving yourself, you won't be needing anyone to love you, you will be your own happiness. You will live happily and will be a happy person.

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” — Buddha

Some things may be equally essential but nothing is more important than a healthy sense of self-esteem and loving yourself. It makes your life simpler and lighter. You will have more inner stability and less self-sabotage.

“A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.” – Mark Twain