How to Learn Your Lover’s Body

Once little inch at a time.

My lover has a freckle just to the left of his belly button and besides his perfect ass, that little freckle is my favorite part of his body.

The first time I saw it in a photo of him I wanted to bury my face into his soft skin and kiss it, and I’ve spent a lot of time doing that since.

I love that freckle, just like I love all his scars, because it makes him so uniquely him.

Finding all the little mysteries and idiosyncrasies of your lover’s body is a journey everyone should take — with your eyes, your hands, your mouth, even your nose… you want to know your partner intimately and deeply, and that can only happen if you really get up close and personal.

Look at them closely, don’t be afraid to stare.

Go ahead and memorize every millimeter of their face, that part is easy, that part just goes with the territory, but look closer.

Look at their skin and appreciate its uniqueness — the tone, the freckles, the way it looks when it’s pressed up against yours.

Look for their scars and learn all their stories, every scar has a story that makes up part of who we are, and they are usually stories worth knowing.

Look at their body, really look, and if you love them, appreciate every little inch no matter what it looks like, because it’s the body of the person you love.

Touch their bodies and feel their parts with all of your parts.

Rub your hands over their body and feel them everywhere, search for the places that make them smile, and the places that make them jump.

Run your hands over their arms, their chest, their stomach, down their thighs — you can show a lot of love and appreciation for your lover’s body just by touching every part.

Kiss them and let your mouths figure it out, everyone kisses differently, so find a lover you want to kiss for the rest of your life and don’t let them go.

Hold your lover’s hand and make sure it’s the perfect fit, that your fingers lace together and feel like they were made to come together.

Curl up into the curve of their side and put your head on their chest — do you really know your lover if you don’t know the sound of their beating heart?

Taste your lover.

Start with their lips, their tongue, breathe each other’s breath while you’re kissing, savor all of it.

Run your tongue down their chest and over their sensitive nipples before you go farther — are they salty with sweat, are they sweet and clean from the shower?

Move that tongue down farther.

Take the tip of your lover’s cock into your mouth and swirl your tongue around to get a taste of him — dip your tongue into the folds of her pussy and get a taste of her.

Feast on each other. Devour her pussy until she’s drenching your face and her legs are quivering around your head.

Suck his cock until he explodes in your mouth and drink every delicious drop down, appreciate the uniqueness, no one else will taste like him.

Bury your nose into your lover’s neck and breathe them in, the scent of their skin, the essence of them that is downright intoxicating.

Take a handful of her hair and smell the combination of shampoos and conditioners and that deep underneath scent of her.

Smell her pussy, yes, really get in there and take a good whiff of the woman you love, and she will do the same to you, she will bring her face down to your full package and breathe you in to memorize your scent, and she will love it.

It’s a shame that so many of us worry about the big picture of our bodies.

We worry that we’re not fit enough, or thin enough to be truly loved and wanted, we compare ourselves to others to the point of jealousy at times, and it’s not healthy.

It’s the little things about my lover that make me love his body the most.

That perfect freckle next to his belly button, the little crease in his earlobes, all five of his chest hairs, the way his eyes always seem to be changing color, the softness of the bottom of his feet, the way his hand fits so perfectly into mine.

All of us are unique and special in our own little ways, we each have things about our bodies that are more or less attractive to people, but certainly we all have things that are endearing as well.

Go find those little things, go fall in love with your lover’s body for the first time, or fall in love with it all over again.

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