How to Find Your G-Spot and Have A Body Shaking Orgasm
You know you found it when it makes you wanna feel like you need to pee.
Today I will be sharing with you how to access your G-Spot orgasm and dispelling some terrible G-Spot myths such as it’s a spot because it’s not.
Get ready for some sexy info that will make this the most squirtable holiday season that you have ever had.
G-Zone, not spot!
The G-Spot was first theorized by Dr. Ernest Graefenburg in 1950 and was originally described as a dime-sized spot.
This is just super wrong.
The G-Spot is actually a tube of erectile tissue that completely surrounds the urethra.
The G-Spot is actually like a tube of tissue that completely goes all the way around it. You can feel the underside of the spongy cylinder through the vaginal canal but it is much larger and longer than a dime.
It’s really more like a G zone than a particular spot.
Most G-zones are located near the entrance to the vagina within the first third of the vaginal canal. Though some can be felt further back. It differs woman-to-woman.
When I first heard about the G-Spot, somebody told me that it felt like a sponge and so I promptly went searching in my vagina for something that felt like a kitchen sponge.
I was very disappointed to find that I had nothing of the sort.
So, I concluded that I must be one of those women who doesn’t have a G-Spot.
This is a total myth.
Every single woman born with female reproductive anatomy has a G-Spot or a G-Zone which I will henceforth refer to it as because that is more accurate.
There are probably a few reasons why I couldn’t find my G zone when I first went searching for it.
- The first being that I went in a totally dry and unaroused which made G zone finding nearly impossible.
- The second reason is that aroused or on aroused to this day there is nothing in my vagina that feels like a kitchen sponge.
It wasn’t until years after my first search that somebody described the G zone to me as feeling like ridgy flesh on the roof of your mouth and I do have something that feels like that.
All G-Zones are different
Whether yours feels like;
- A kitchen sponge,
- or the roof of your mouth,
- or the wrinkly skin of a warlocks wet elbow.
Just trust me it’s in there.
The best way to access the G zone is with one or two fingers.
This does not mean however that you or your partner should just go up in there and start searching for the zone with the come-hither motion as they teach you to do in pretty much every G-Spot article ever written.
In fact, don’t do that!
That would hurt like hell.
Not to mention it would be a fruitless excursion. To find the G zone and actually feel pleasure from stimulating it you must be aroused super juicy aroused.
Because remember the G zone itself is just a mass of erectile tissue. The more aroused you become the plumper and more responsive it will be.
Take your time.
G zone pleasure is not usually on the quickie menu.
I often orgasm clitorally before I even can find and feel any sort of pleasure from stimulating my G zone.
Now when your G zone is aroused and ripe and ready to go you can play around with some different tack.
- It often helps to start with just holding. Just press into it and hold and take a few deep breaths, deep into your pelvis.
- Imagine that you actually are trying to breathe right into whatever is touching your G-Spot.
- From here you can try pulsing.
This is literally all I do. I press and I pulse. And it just sends like waves of pleasure through my whole pelvis.
It’s amazing.
You can also try brushing your finger along it either,
- Horizontally,
- or vertically up and down,
- or in small little circles.
Go ahead and try the come-hither motion if you must. It is not my cup of tea but it might work for you.
In general though once aroused the G-zone can take quite a bit of pressure.
Don’t be afraid to really lay into it.
Now, getting your G-Spot orgasm is usually not as easy as getting your clitoral orgasm.
Women can often feel pain here or experience numbness and lack of sensation when they first start working on their G zone.
— This is totally normal.
Emotional Waves
The G zone can be a huge holding place for trauma, shame, fear, not to mention huge amounts of sadness.
The first time I had my G-Spot stimulated it was actually during sex and I burst out crying and I was so embarrassed. I had no idea what was going on.
I couldn’t stop crying all night.
It just kept leaking out of my eyes but that actually is totally normal experience and releasing that emotion is what makes room for pleasure.
If you experience numbness or big waves of emotion just know that that is all part of the process.
Keep milking the area and it will shift with time.
- Slow down,
- Stop if you need to,
- Take a few deep breaths and allow the emotion to just come and pass.
I would like to say to follow the same protocol even if you do feel the pain, they’re going really really slow and stopping when you need to. However, with pain, I would also like to say if it persists definitely go and talk to a doctor.
I personally believe that most vaginal pain is not a medical issue but is actually an emotional issue. However, I am NOT a doctor. So just go see a doctor if it hurts.
Practice, practice, practice
The point is don’t be immediately discouraged though if you were not immediately G orgasmic it can take quite a bit of work.
You are literally rewiring your brain to learn to experience pleasure in a new way.
Sometimes it does help to even stimulate your clitoris while you are first working your G-zone so that your brain starts to associate that spot being touched with orgasm.
That is all I have for you today.
Leave any question in the replies and let me know about any of your own G’s ow experiences. I’d be happy to hear about it.
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Cheers.