Wanting Is Easy, But Aligning Is The Actual Work
Your thoughts, emotions, and actions must harmonize like a chorus.
My dear, sometimes we don’t realize this journey is a master class in selective thinking and manifestation.
Your twin is doing much more than helping you face your wounds and heal. They are also reminding you that, regardless of what Ego says:
You are the architect. You are the builder. You are the one who tells what is real.
This journey also teaches us that wanting is easy, but aligning with what we want to manifest is the actual work.
An example is how we long for Union but get obsessed with separation. Instead of appreciating the energetic bond we share with our twin and the synchronicities that point to what we want — closeness — we tend to focus on what we don’t want:
To be physically apart.
These contradictions create an energy loop where pain and frustration are the only experiences we are compatible with.
To break down from this cycle and heal faster, the first step is redirecting your attention to what you want to manifest: growth, progression, alignment.
Maybe you know this as positive thinking, and that is okay, but it goes beyond that:
Your thoughts, emotions, and actions must harmonize like a chorus. You must be so in tune with what you want that there is no longer difference between You and your desire. Then, when the Universe reads your energy, it says, “This is yours because it is you.”
There must be a drastic recalibration to achieve this energetic coherence.
I know there are huge contradictions and limiting beliefs on this topic. Many people think they have to forget about what they want and even lose all faith so the Universe will do absolutely everything for them. I explain a bit more why losing expectations won’t necessarily help you make progress in this article.
It Is About Moving From The Wounded Self To The Future Self
Let me share with you two opposite examples of energy workflow. Tap into them and pay attention to how each makes you feel:
Wounded Vibration
I want you because I need you. I need you because I’m embittered without you. Nothing fills this emptiness like you do. Nothing gives my life a purpose. Nothing makes me feel loved, and nothing deserves my love.
Healed Vibration
I want you because I choose you. I want my light to shine with yours. I want to co create an expansive wave of Love and transformation and enlightenment for ourselves and the world. I want our love to be a testimony of selflessness and renovation.
Again, thinking positively can help move from a Wounded to a Healed vibration, but it can take years because of how we understand time, plus the limiting beliefs, fears, and pain stored at the subconscious level.
Instead, you can use quantum leaps to connect with your Future Self. This method is like traveling in time and bringing to the present the higher vibration that your Future Self already has. This version of yourself is already healed, so connecting with them means you don’t need to wait for your Present Self. Instead, you will close the gap sooner.
Quantum leaps are a method I use myself frequently. This helped me exit the pain loop of the twin flame journey and focus on my Soul’s mission, while embracing the connection as the gift it is.
I just released a 7-day guide for quantum healing with specific nighttime activations to instruct your subconscious mind and accelerate your inner work. By sharing these activations, I want to give you the same I have been given: a remembrance of who you are and everything you can do when you calibrate your vibration at will.
Dear Soul, I write to spread the energy of Unconditional Love and help you remember the Divine being you are. If you want to dive deeper into these topics, you can find my books here.
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