How to Eat Her Out — Oral Sex Tips for Going Down on a Women
I can’t wait until my girlfriend gets home for dinner.
I’m really excited to sit down and talk about oral sex today. Because who doesn’t like oral sex.
I know some people absolutely detest it but I am NOT one of those people and I’m sure some of you aren’t either. I really think there’s nothing else to say but let’s jump right into it.
Eating a female
out of so much more than like sticking your head in between her legs. Sucking and licking her and watching her lose her mind while she’s on her way to orgasm.
Not everyone has these oral skills or has had as much practice. As I know some of you have but just like kissing and making out, you can definitely learn.
You want to make the situation memorable.
I guess as the old saying goes,
Practice makes it perfect.
and when it pertains to oral sex it absolutely does.
You have to communicate with your partner.
Before going into any type of sexual activity with your partner is absolutely communication. If there is not consent from both ends unfortunately this is how the cookie crumbles.
Sometimes some people aren’t comfortable with oral sex and we have to respect them for that. There are some people who have still yet to lose their oral sex virginity.
Communicating your desires to performing oral sex on your partner will not only give you the Hall Pass.
To do so it will also create a calm and relaxed atmosphere for your partner.
If she isn’t relaxed she won’t enjoy what’s going on.
Because her focus and her mindset are elsewhere.
You also can get very self-conscious about the physical makeup of their vagina as well as worry about how long it can take them to reach orgasm.
How to
Before you take the vagina head-on. And I mean that literally tease the surrounding areas like her thighs. Guess some breath play going on there.
Work your way down her stomach and stop just above the vagina. What you want to do is get her whole body warmed up.
- Do it with your mouth.
- Work it up.
- Tease her all the way down before you get to the Holy Grail.
Once your mouth reaches her vagina find her clit and make that your focal points.
When it comes to performing oral sex on your female partner, you will be spending up most of your time around and on the clit.
— Most women will require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.
Anyways, once your mouth and tongue are on that clit. You want to go ahead and lick and flick that clit.
Starting off gently because the vagina is all pink and you want to start soft.
You don’t want to go in too hard.
But while you’re stirring off and as you go along, hold up a little bit of pressure.
Don’t forget Labia
Not all women but somewhat women do enjoy the sensation of having their labia stimulated.
Don’t leave that part out.
Lips
Focus on her body language reactions as much as you’re keeping the focus on her vocal reactions in the process of pleasuring her and seeing her enjoy your work.
You too will see that you’re gaining a little bit aroused.
We were all born with a nice set of lips. Get your lips on the action. Wrap them around her clit and start sucking.
For extra sensation, add some fastback and forth tongue flicking to compliment your sucking.
Saliva
You’ll notice as you go along her vagina is gain wet from arousal.
Don’t let this hold you back from adding your own wetness from your mouth. Be extra with your saliva when it comes to oral play.
— I feel like this tip here is almost essential when it comes to having oral sex.
Mouth, Fingers, and a Pillow
I may or may not be speaking from experience but elevate her pelvis by sliding a pillow under her butt. This is gonna help her feel more intensity as a while being stimulated.
This is also a really great way that when your mouth is busy you can slide in a couple of fingers. You can easily stimulate her g-spot once you slide those fingers in.
It’s basically like triple stimulation and trust me when I say this,
She will be vocalizing her appreciation for you.
Sensories will be flying while she’s on her way to her big finale of the orgasm. If you feel that,
- Her thighs are trembling and clenching tighter around your head,
- Or she begins thrusting at your face,
- And if her moans are intensifying.
Don’t stop!
You’re doing everything right and she’s all about it.
Go until she’s finished and until your face is covered in her juices.
Your mouth and tongue will probably be exhausted from your performance but deep down inside of you you’re gonna know that it was well worth it.
Not only did you make your partner feel earth-shattering pleasure. You also did yourself a favor of getting off while seeing your partner get off.
It’s kind of like a win-win
Relax, It takes time.
Now for my oral performers do not be discouraged if she does not reach orgasm right away.
Most women not all but a good amount of women need at least 20 minutes of stimulation before they reach orgasm.
- Enjoy the moment,
- Take your time,
- Enjoy your time between her legs.
Slowing down is totally sexy.
And of course, over time you will learn what she likes and what she dislikes by trying out different techniques as well as different positions.
Regardless enjoy it. The learning process and communication between the two of you.
- What it is you like?
- What it is you want to try?
I think oral sex can be an extremely sexy bedroom act.
There’s just something about putting your partner’s genitalia in your mouth or putting your mouth on your partner’s genitalia.
That’s extremely satisfying and extremely intriguing to us.
I’m not sure if I should think that. That’s kind of weird.
Or if I should embrace it and welcome it with open arms and ask for any sexual performance communique.
Relax, loosen up, and obviously, you want to be creative.
All in all, find yourself really connecting with your partner and being present in the moment.
And as we all know and I’ll say especially at myself sex is all about having fun out whether with a partner or if you’re on your own.
Whatever the case may come most of the entire situation and don’t cut any corners.
I hope you enjoyed, if so follow me. I am sending you so much love,
Bye.