Killer instinct means having strong willpower. It’s not easy to spot, some people are hidden killers, they’re sweet and laid back, but when it’s time for business, get the hell out of their way.
It’s called the killer instinct because it’s innate. But, if you condition yourself long enough it can become second nature.
First, what are they like?
They are ruthless
Killers are lions with tunnel vision. When they see their prey, it’s seek-and-destroy time, and they’ll rip your head off if that’s what it takes.
Think about all the businessmen, politicians, athletes, or anyone who’s at the top of the food chain, they have zero mercy for their enemies.
They take it to the extreme
Killers are just as ruthless with themselves.
They’re willing to achieve what they want at all costs, even if it means sacrificing health and love, it’s why they win.
In baseball and in business, there are three types of people. Those who make it happen, those who watch it happen, and those who wonder what happened. -Tommy Lasorda
Losers make excuses, winners make things happen.
They give no fucks
Normal people pretend to not care. But killers really, really couldn’t give a rat’s ass, your opinion of them usually doesn’t even cross their mind.
Normal people feel a need to make excuses or explain their failures, killers don’t. Agree or disagree, understand or misunderstand, it’s all good.
There’s no quit in them
Thomas Edison might’ve failed up to 10,000 times before inventing the lightbulb. Most people might give up after 10 tries at something, shame on them.
Killers are resilient fighters, if anything, failure motivates them even more.
They want to dominate
To them, good isn’t enough. They enjoy stomping on competition, it shows that they’re heads-and-shoulders above everybody else.
They fight through stuff
It doesn’t matter how many hours it takes, how bad it hurts, how scary it feels, how dull it is, or how much they have to sacrifice, there’s no let-up.
They like challenges
When they face adversity, they don’t complain, they see it as an exciting opportunity to prove themselves.
They aren’t bothered by pressure
How someone handles pressure will tell you what they’re made of. Do they act unusual? Do they break down? Do they explode in anger?
Or, do they do what killers do? Stay ice cool. Or even better, excel under pressure.
Michael Jordan doesn’t get intimidated by big moments. The end of a close game makes him come alive and perform even better, and that’s why he’s the most clutch player of all time.
They are hella confident
Confidence is the #1 trait that characterizes a killer. It doesn’t come and go, it’s a stain/tattoo/mark embedded deep in their psyche. And no outside noise can smudge it.
It’s why they’re huge risk-takers, they believe they’ll win every time.
How to become a stone-cold killer
Become your own enforcer.
Do you have what it takes? Are you willing to push yourself and discipline yourself to get from point A to point B, regardless of the circumstance?
If not, there’s good news. You can work on your killer instinct every day from anywhere:
- If you want to wake up early every day, then set 50 alarms, sleep earlier, use Mel Robbin’s 5-second rule
- If you want to bump up your weight lift limit by 20 lbs, then take the pain, hire a coach, find a friend, scream if you have to
- If you want to stop drinking, then give away your booze or throw it away, say no to parties and bars, go to AA meetings if you have to
- If you want to start your own business, then ask the bank for a loan, borrow money from friends and family, start a fundraiser, sell your stuff. Sell your car, your home, your sperm/eggs, your kidney
Whatever it takes.
Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. — Michael Jordan
Every time you force yourself to complete a goal, big or small, your inner killer levels up. Because you’re training your mind to embrace discomfort.
It’s a simple concept but difficult task. If you aren’t a killer by nature you need to push yourself and even be cruel to yourself if necessary. Most people aren’t willing to do that, and that’s why they’re average, that’s why they can only wish for wealth and success.
Be hungry
If you want something bad enough, you will find a way to get it.
If a limbless mother’s house is on fire but her baby’s still in the bedroom, I bet she’ll get her child out of the house, somehow.
And that’s what killers have always, a relentless and fearless attitude. It’s in their DNA to go hard all the time.
I’ve worked on my own killer instinct and it’s helped me a lot
I wouldn’t say there was no killer in me, everybody’s got some. But I used to be too nice, or should I say, too weak. Some of it was due to my soft nature and some due to my Asian culture.
A group of tough kids pushed me around in high school, and it came to a point where I had enough and decided to stand up to them. If they called me names I‘d go back at them. If they drank a whole bottle of liquor, I’d match them. If we played basketball, I’d go extra hard.
Maybe I developed an edge or maybe I’ve had it in me the whole time. Either way, my people-pleasing aura started wearing off and people started to respect me. I carry the same edge with me today and when I say I’ll do something, I’d get it done, no matter what.
And that’s the essence of a killer, always put up a fight.
Signs you need to step your game up
You aren’t where you want to be, and it might not have much to do with your qualifications. You have the same tools as everybody else, what you’re lacking is the mindset. Let’s see if you fall into any of these weak approaches:
- You aren’t obsessed-you dabble around and give half effort. Killers are single-minded, once they set a target, they go 100mph
- You dance around the real subject-you want to be a writer so you read, take courses, design your website, your logo, you even think of your pen name, you work on everything but the main thing itself, which is writing. Why? Because it’s the hardest. Killers go straight for the dome
- You don’t give your 110% effort-you work hard enough to get the job done. Killers work till they physically can’t, and then work some more
- You get distracted easily-Staying focused for a long period of time isn’t easy but if you can’t do it, you ain’t no killer!
Killer instinct is a power boost and it’ll amplify everything you do.






