How to Decode If She’s Shy or Disinterested in Six Steps
If a girl doesn’t like you, she wouldn’t care!
Playing hard-to-get is an age-old trick for dating and mating. When you make someone work a little hard to get next to you, they won’t stop till you’re theirs.
Playing hard-to-get is a way for people to identify high-quality partners. A study by the University of Rochester discovered that making the chase harder increased a potential mate’s desirability.
Sometimes insecure women play hard to get to test a man, to see if he cares more or less. Yet, a lot of these women are superficial.
These women look nice and warm on the outside, but when you really get to know them, you’ll quirk. She may have admirable qualities on the superficial level, but she’s actually kind of “meh” once you get to know her.
Knowing the signs a woman is playing hard can help you avoid being labeled a creep. And you can avoid wasting your precious time on a girl who doesn’t deserve it.
Below are definitive red flags and signs she’s not worth your time, even though she makes the chasing hard for you.
She is disinterested in you
You got a promotion, you came back home excited to share the news with your girlfriends, but she brushes you off and begins to discuss The Kardashian sisters. That’s a sign of selfishness.
If this happens more often, then jump ship now, and save yourself the trouble of being involved with someone who isn’t caring.
She’s too busy to show up for you
We understand work can be demanding, and family matters creep in and disrupt our plans. But when a woman is interested in a man, she makes time for him.
If the lady in your life is constantly MIA, if she’s too busy that you can’t fit in her schedule, it’s time to break it off.
She embarrasses you in public
One of my friends is good at humiliating her boyfriend whenever he hangs out with us. The last time we went to the beach, she pulled down his pants to expose his small dick, and that wasn’t the first time. I was embarrassed for the guy. But he just laughed over it. Though we knew he was offended.
If she never defends you in public and she constantly makes fun of you, then she isn’t worth your time. A woman who truly wants to be with you will always have your back.
She doesn’t commit to you
Some people sacrifice their values and self-worth to make their partner happy. If you are the only one doing the heavy lifting — calling, visiting, hanging with their friends even when you don’t want to, and being available when needed, then you are in a one-sided relationship.
A healthy relationship requires the two individuals to sacrifice and commit their time and resources to sustain it. If your partner isn’t putting in the same effort as you are, then she really isn’t worth keeping.
She constantly criticizes everything you do
Your partner should build you up — not tear you down. You’re not being ‘too sensitive if you expect her to praise you from time to time when you do something nice for her or someone else.
If she makes fun of you constantly, belittles you, acts passively aggressive when she does something wrong, and is dismissive of your feelings, you don’t have her respect, and she doesn’t deserve you.
She remains a mystery you can’t fathom
When a woman likes a man, she will try to keep him guessing. She may give glues and hints here and there about her to avoid being boring, but she won’t let you into her life so easily.
This can manifest in small behaviors and conversations and can make her come off as apathetic. Some insecure women use this trick on men they like without letting them know it.
However, high-value women use it too on men they want to toil with. If, after dating her for two months and you still can’t understand who she is, her dreams, family, past or present life, there is a chance you never will.
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