How To Deal With Bratty Women
Women can act bratty and entitled on dates, but sometimes it’s your fault.
If you change your behavior towards so-called ‘brats’, you might find they transform into kind and respectful ladies.
This guide will explain why women put on this front around men, plus what you can do to turn things around.
So, make sure to apply these tips before you start ranting on Red Pill forums how your last date ‘belongs to the streets’.
Why Do Women Act Bratty?
Louis CK hit the nail on the head when he said there is no greater threat to women than men.
In an old comedy special, he said: “A woman saying yes to a date with a man is literally insane and ill-advised.
“We’re the number one threat to women. Globally and historically, we’re the number one cause of injury and mayhem to women. We’re the worst thing that ever happens to them.”
This is comedy with a grain of truth. So, cut them some slack for being a little standoffish…
On top of that, women are typically more attracted to a man’s personality than their appearance.
They tend to want men who are:
- confident;
- brave;
- grounded;
- charismatic;
- assertive;
- strong leaders.
The problem is: it’s simple enough for a man to fake this, especially if a woman is polite and obedient throughout their interaction.
A lot of women are bratty to test whether a man’s confidence is genuine. They want to see if he can stand strong in the face of adversity.
When they poke fun at your flaws, refuse to comply with your requests or misbehave another way in public, they are watching to see how you react.
Do you maintain your confident demeanour or fold at the first sign of drama? The answer will tell her a lot about whether she wants to keep dating you. Dating experts have labelled this behavior as ‘shit testing’ and suggest it’s often subconscious.
Some women act bratty because they’re worried about being seen as ‘too easy’. Others do it as a defence mechanism because they’ve been hurt by hyper-confident men in the past.
Then, there are women who have been spoiled their whole lives and believe they’re too good for any men who dares to talk to them. These are the true brats. It’s difficult to save these women — and I’m not sure many men would want to.
Still, whatever category your brat falls into, the advice for turning things around remains the same.
How To Deal With Bratty Women
When a woman acts bratty, your natural instinct might be to supplicate to her and do whatever it takes to avoid conflict. That’s not the way to fix things.
Some men might choose to snap or throw a similar insult to put her in her place. That won’t improve the situation either.
A strong leader won’t supplicate to someone who is in the wrong, nor will he lose his cool. Instead, he’ll calmly call out a woman for acting unreasonably. It can be as simple as telling her that she crossed your personal boundary and you won’t accept that from her again.
Deep down, this is what she’s hoping you will do.
More than anything, she wants to be with a man who is strong enough to tame her bratty nature without getting caught up in his emotions.
In his iconic book on masculinity The Way Of The Superior Man, author David Deida suggests a woman may even become aroused when you deal with her in this way.
He says: “The most erotic moment for a woman is feeling that you are Shiva, the divine masculine: unperturbable, totally loving, fully present, and all-pervading.
“She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her. She cannot scare you away, because you already penetrate her in fearless love, pervading her heart and body.”
Women Will Misbehave As Much As You Let Them Get Away With
If a woman is making jokes about your flaws, it can be enough to laugh it off or agree with whatever thing she’s saying.
There’s an effective technique you can use called “agree and amplify”, where you exaggerate whatever she said to make it even more true.
When a woman suggests I’m too old for her, I tell her to call me Grandpa. If she makes fun of my height, I’ll talk about my old job as a garden gnome.
You don’t need to put your foot down when she’s teasing you like that. Have fun with it. The key is to show that your emotions aren’t rocked by her comments.
If she does cross your personal boundaries, you need to calmly call her out every time. Her behaviour won’t improve otherwise. Women (and men) will misbehave as much as you let them get away with.
Some of the hottest brats might have never dated a man who was brave enough to set her straight. This might be your way to stand out as the masculine presence she needs in her life.
If she ends the date because you kept to your boundaries, that’s not the type of woman you want in your life anyway.
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