How To Break Bad Habits In 3 Easy Steps
Do you struggle with bad habits?
Are you tired of being late, eating poorly, or procrastinating at work? It’s possible to break these habits for good by following a simple strategy.
The key is to stop thinking about how difficult it will be to change. Instead, consider the benefits of breaking your bad habit. It can help you sleep better, improve your health, be more productive at work, and even save money.
Remember that it’s going to take time and patience to make lasting changes in your life.
1. Identify Your Triggers
Many people are unaware of the role that habits play in their lives. They go about their days without ever thinking about the processes that they repeat over and over again. Habits don’t just impact the lives of individuals, however. They also shape the habits of companies and organizations.
What causes the bad habit to take place?
Bad habits are typically caused by a combination of three things:
1. Learned behavior: We observe other people doing something and decide to mimic them. For example, we learn from watching others smoke, overeat, or procrastinate.
2. Poorly designed environment: Sometimes we have little control over our environments. If you’re in the habit of eating candy bars at your computer, it’s probably because there is a candy machine sitting next to your workspace.
It could be a person, place, social media app, or anything stressing you. This is the first and most crucial step to identify you bad habit.
2. Replace It With A Positive Behavior
A habit is a routine of behavior that we repeatedly follow without thinking about it. It’s a pattern of behavior that we develop over time and that becomes automatic. So, when we develop good habits, we are programming our minds to do what is best for us.
The idea is to find a positive behavior that you want to reinforce and pair it with something that you do every day. The goal is for the new behavior to become a habit, which will take about three weeks.
So how do you get started? It’s easy. Create a shortlist of things you would like to change and then start brainstorming new behaviors that might replace them. Choose one behavior at a time and focus on it until it becomes a habit.
Choose a good action that can replace the bad habit. When you recognize the trigger, force yourself to do the positive behavior.
Examples of positive habits:
- Control your anger.
- Live in the present moment.
- Meditate.
- Go for a walk on daily basis.
3. Positively Reinforce The Positive Habit
There are many ways to positively reinforce a positive habit. One of the most common practices is to do something small to reward yourself for accomplishing the task, like going for a walk or eating a healthy meal.
When you’re trying to build a positive habit, it’s important not to overwhelm yourself with rewards. If you give yourself too much, you won’t be able to remember them all. It’s important that your rewards are also realistic and sustainable over time. Don’t promise yourself a big reward if you know you can’t follow through on it.
In a world that is increasingly negative, it is so important to take time out to reinforce the positive. If you look at the most successful people in the world they are all forward-thinking and optimistic. They have learned to develop a positive mindset, and it has helped them achieve success.
Reward yourself when you recognize the trigger, and replace the negative habit with positive behavior.
Over time the new behavior will become a positive HABIT.
And what's next? Start replacing more bad habits.
