How To Be In Charge Of Your Reality.
Do things out of necessity, not emotions
You must learn to do things out of necessity, outside which means you’re not in charge of yourself.
People with strong personalities don’t get driven around by people, event or emotions; they consciously think, analyse things, act and move things around.
If you do things out of your emotional feelings, you’re bound to lose your balance in your life, and you’re likely to be easily taken for rides, and manipulated.
This doesn’t mean you’re rude or proud, it means all you have mastered is to put things in perspective. You will rarely clash with others because you will understand that everyone has and must be allowed to operate within their boundaries.
That’s called respect for human rights, and spaces, for self, the first and basic way of protecting human dignity and to evolution.