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6 Things “Alpha” Males Do That “Beta” Males Don’t!
Dominic from Fast and furious, Richard Branson, whom do you imagine when you hear the concept of Alpha Male? People understand alpha male identity differently. For someone, he’s a Mario Casas in the movie “3 meters above the sky”, and for others, he’s The Arnold Schwarzenegger. In this story, I’m going to share with you my thoughts and ideas of the Alpha Male, how I understand the Alpha male, and what things they have that betas don’t.
They are leaders in society
An Alpha male is a leader in society, at work in the family, in friendship. They try to find solutions not just for themselves but for the group. They take control and speak up. They take responsibility for the group and lead them in the right direction.
They are caring and compassionate.
They think about the greater good and are a benefit for others. The advanced alpha males help beginners, never laugh at their fails and tries to understand their problems and challenges. Often alpha males show the right way with personal example and experience.
They are charming
As alpha males are leaders in life, consequently we can describe them as polite, friendly, and likable with a good spirit, character, and personality. Everyone wants to have an alpha male friend, boyfriend, brother, father. An alpha male is a person with whom every person would like to talk to and be in contact. Alphas think of their look, their hairstyle, and their body. They are charming.
They don’t run from their problems
Unlike betas that scare from problems and challenges, Alphas always open to new challenges and difficult situations. They understand that in order to be strong they should face and overcome challenges. It is a purpose of life and they never stop halfway in addition they help others to be strong as them.
They are authentic
We see a lot of people are changing by other people, by different situations. Alphas are strong identities with stamina. And it’s difficult or impossible to manipulate them. They don’t change who they are from place to place, person to person. They have respect from people.
They have willpower and impulse control
Impulses are our enemies. Alcohol, spicy senoritas …. A lot of things can seduce people but not to Alphas. They are conscious, disciplined, and emotionally stable. As a result, their choices are rational.
Reading this article you may think that I’m an Alpha male or I introduce myself as the alpha male. I do not consider myself an Alpha male. I should work on myself, develop characteristics and skills to become an Alpha Male and I’m on my way to self-improvement.
For Future Alpha Males
I’d like to advise you to read “Meditations: from a Proper Alpha Male Marcus Aurelius who was a Roman Emperor, Stoic, and philosopher.
What you need to do to become the alpha male.
To me, a proper guy, or an alpha shouldn't try to be like another one or copy him. Every alpha male should be unique but be open to learning things from others. If I have a chance to become a Shwartzneger, I wouldn't become. Yes, he is really an Alpha male, I’d like to learn a lot of things from him, but to totally become like him — NO. Because I need to discover myself, know my identity well, know my strengths and weaknesses, know my fears afterward to work on myself to become the best version of me.
Techniques to boost your willpower.
These are actions I do for myself. - Healthy and energy fool Diet - Full-body physical workout. - Cold Shower
From Introvert to Extrovert
Introverts can’t be alpha males. So if you are an introvert, you must become a talkative and charming sexy guy. So that every girl dreams of you.
A challenge: Every day have a conversation with a new person. This way, day by day, gradually you’ll become talkative and confident.
Pinterest is a wonderful inspiration source, where you can search and check new fashion styles, discover new ideas to improve your taste, and become a stylish sexy guy.
Conclusion
Alpha male concept is something that different people understand differently. Reading and listening about alpha males we may think that they are ideal guys. Alpha males aren’t ideal, They do mistakes and have disadvantages too.
Who do you consider as Alpha Male?