How Spiritual Sex Can Boost Orgasm and Change Your Sex Life

The secret pleasure of tantra sex.

Some of us are lucky to get off quickly without help. But for those you who find it difficult to orgasm during penetrative sex, then tantra should be on your sex checking list.

If you haven’t heard of Tantra, you are not alone.

Tantra it as a tool that can bring more intimacy into your life, whether you have a partner or not.

It is about enhancing your inner mental experiences, spiritual growth, and personal empowerment.

Unlike other traditional forms of meditation — that see the body as dangerous and sinful, tantra sees the body and the sheer pleasure it can produce as a channel to the divine rather than an obstacle.

Mastering some of the simple techniques gives you access to a transformative tool that can improve your sexual confidence and your relationships, both casual and otherwise.

Tantra breathing technique reconnects you to your five senses, helping you get centered, relaxed, and grounded enough to go deeper.

Start by taking a big breath and allow it to fill you from your genitals to the top of your head. Pay attention to your inhalation, and then slowly exhale.

Notice how your body feels and how your senses of smell, touch, and hearing are different at the end of the breath.

I can bring myself to orgasm just by taking a few breaths. Anyone can do this very easily. You really need to go inside yourself to feel the mystical powers of tantra flow.

When people practice sex with the tantra technique, they feel more sensations in their bodies.

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Tantric sex sounds wild and crazy, when it’s actually quite simple. It combines all of the breathing, mind-body connection, and inner awareness of meditation with sex.

Tantric sex is a whole new form of sexual connection that gives you access to deeper levels of feeling, sensation, and energy and ultimately more of who you really are.

Tantric sex also creates room for the orgasm to grow from the genitals, allowing all lovers to experience multiple full-body orgasms, which is extremely important in a world where only 20 percent of women have orgasms regularly.

It can help you release shame, trauma, and blocks related to sex, unleash the transformative power of your erotic energy and lead to some of the most heart-wrenching orgasms ever.

The simplest explanation of tantric intimacy is about aligning the fire of your sexual energy, passion, and desires with your heart, mind, and a sense of goodness in your life.

When these forces come into balance and harmony, the sparks of interpersonal magic really start to fly, and sex becomes healing, empowering, transcendent, and profoundly beautiful.

You don’t need a partner to practice Tantra. You can get started on your own, naked or fully-clothed, in your kitchen. Lol!

To truly benefit from this mind-body-spirit practice, we have to start with getting in touch with ourselves.

Without further ado, let’s get right into the 3 tantra exercises that will blow your mind on your next sex experience.

Counting breath

The beauty of tantric sex is that it expands intimacy outside of the realm of a purely physical or genital-focused act.

Breathing together creates an intimacy that stimulates erotic tension- making the orgasmic contractions more intense.

To do this:

1. Close your eyes and take several deep breaths.
2. Let your breath flow naturally.
3. Inhale and then count “one” as you exhale.
4. On the next exhalation, count “two.”
5. Work your way up to ‘five’.
6. Repeat the cycle, starting at “one” and ending at “five”.

Note: Don’t go past five, or your mind and attention will begin to wander. Try doing this exercise for 10 minutes.

Sideways Straddle

This is the best sex position that boosts orgasm tenfold, making it one of the greatest for women trying to have a clit orgasm.

To do this:

1. Have your partner lie on their back with their knees bent.
2. Lower yourself onto him so you’re straddling one of his thighs, facing away from him.
3. You can grind up against their thigh for some great clitoral stimulation.

Yab Yum

This entails a seriously intimate, connection-boosting session. The penetration can happen anally too, but it can be painful. It’s a great way to hit your A-spot if you’re on top.

To do this:

1. Have the penetrating partner sit cross-legged on the bed or floor.
2. Sit on your partner’s lap facing each other
3. Wrap your legs around your partner’s lower back.
4. Embrace each other as your partner penetrates you
5. Maintain eye contact and sync your breathing

How to get the best results from tantra sex

Tantra gives people the opportunity to bring sanctity, intimacy, and gratitude back into their sex life.

Before you begin your tantra practice, turn off the lights — shutting out from the rest of the world.

Then loosen up your body. Tantra is about moving energy through the body.

If you touch yourself, do it slowly. Do everything twice as slow as you normally would. It is better to play three times with excellent awareness than thirty times without full attention.

Masturbate to the point of orgasm, but before you orgasm, stop it with a breath.

Breathe that orgasm up your body and into your heart. Then do that again.

On the third breathing, allow yourself to have a genital orgasm. Then breathe into your heart, so you have a heart orgasm — releasing any tension in of you as you exhale.

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