How Neglecting Everything Else Makes You a Great Writer
Blinders on for the journey

Do you think you can check on your neighbors, be an attentive babysitter, play for a bit and write amazing stories at the same time? It doesn’t work that way and believing you can do it all will just leave you exhausted and frustrated.
No writers ever became experts while jumping at every call or looking out the window for a relative.
There will be no results to admire if you do it all by halves. When you set out to achieve everything, you will rarely excel at even one thing. And if writing is your quest, you may just have to face the fact that isolating yourself from distractions is the only way forward.
Do you need to cut off the outside world completely?
No, you just need to get rid of distractions. Everything that takes your mind off the topic you started on will likely lead to delays, procrastination, and eventually losing your train of thought.
Don’t waste time once you get an idea, and start putting it into words. Even if it doesn’t look great, editing the beginning or adding subtitles later will be a lot easier once you figure out the basic structure and get your inspiration flow going.
Try hard but try writing the smart way. All those minutes of frustration between taking the dog outside and getting back in the right frame of mind for your story can be gone if you time your articles the right way.
Should you feel guilty?
It does sound daunting. It’s not easy to tell everyone else that you must neglect things for a while to be successful. But think about it for a while.
Your family and friends who have office jobs don’t stop working for other requirements.
They don’t get involved in house chores, babysitting, or dog walking when they’re at work. It’s not that they don’t care about those things. They’re at work and taking responsibility for what they do. And that also means cutting off ties for a few hours.
Why wouldn’t you do the same thing?
Freelancing has its challenges, and keeping boundaries clear is definitely a major one.
Limits are positive for writing
There will come a time when you really need to put that sentence down, come up with the next paragraph, draft the next chapter of your book, or publish a timely news article.
Can you let it slip away and post later, when most of it will have no effect on your readers, and even those who were curious about what you do may have lost interest and moved on?
Writing is not only about trying hard. The timing is crucial, and getting a story out when it counts will help you resonate with your audience. It will be easier to understand how your readers feel about your articles, and you will also get to know different mentalities.
In turn, others’ ideas can reshape your own, so this constant movement in publishing, replying, then writing again has a deeper meaning.
It keeps you active and gets you going for the next piece. If you start writing and then drop it in the middle, some of your ideas will get mixed up with your other activities, the conclusions may be off, and an article that had a good chance to stand out from the crowd has just been lost to distractions.
Don’t let inspiration go down the drain
Discarded thoughts or irrelevant drafts are ok to go. Throw them away anytime, but don’t get rid of the major source for your creativity. It’s true that when you’re a freelance writer, you can set your own schedule, but sometimes this freedom can turn into your worst enemy.
If you can do it in the evening, why start in the morning, right? Well, this kind of thinking won’t get you too far. Don’t postpone writing even if you think after dark it might turn out more enjoyable.
If you are free right now, go for it. You have no control over how your day goes. If anything comes up by the end of the day, you will have wasted precious time that you can’t get back.
Ideas flow everywhere, don’t let go
Once you get a precise idea about what you want to include in your article, don’t let it fly away. If you often have ideas, but they don’t make it on paper or online, it’s time to think about your strategy.
What do you do after you choose a topic? Do you sit down and come up with headlines or subheadings, or do you just store it in a locker in your mind promising to visit it later?
Unfortunately, those visits rarely happen. Another idea may supersede or simply delete the first one, or you can just forget about it.
Would you want a store of ideas to just sit cropping in the back of your mind with no real chance of coming out?
What you don’t write, you lose
That is a hard truth. You may prefer to write later, but with that, you must accept that your thoughts will be different or the topic that spiked your interest is no longer vibrant to you or others. Time is of the essence, but not in the same way as creating a timetable.
What matters is to write when an idea comes. They don’t stand around waiting to get on paper, some are just blown away by other events, and you may regret not heeding your gut feeling.
Intuition and writing schedule
Flexible and lean, ready to listen and learn, these are some of the traits of a fantastic writer. Where does intuition stand? It tops any schedule and drives creativity to its utmost by simply pointing to a state of mind — a way to see beyond rigid timelines. The right time for writing is precisely when you feel it is.
It won’t be comfortable for other people to realize there will be times when you can’t be reached, but writing is just like any professional activity.
And it’s far more sensitive to interruption and outside noise. Not necessarily shouting or laughter; it’s about the noise inside that comes when there is tension around you, or stress affects your ability to write well and engage with your readers.
Listen to intuition when it speaks to you. When an idea seems compelling, and you just feel the beginning paragraph is at your fingertips, don’t lose the momentum. Sit down to write it later, and there will only be a cloud of what-ifs or possibilities you missed out on.
Turn on your blinders and get ready for an outstanding ride! Writing is a journey like no other, but it takes resilience, clear boundaries, and a good dose of positive energy to make your words click with the audience.
You only get one shot to turn each topic into a major highlight. Go for it full speed! It’s not now or whenever. Start, or it will go up in smoke.
© 2022 Amy Christie






