avatarDhanaraj Natesan

Summary

The article outlines personal strategies for overcoming loneliness by fostering self-love and acceptance.

Abstract

The author of the article shares personal insights on combating loneliness through a series of introspective and practical steps. The first step involves connecting with one's inner child to understand and fulfill one's own emotional needs. The author emphasizes the importance of self-respect and care, suggesting that treating oneself with the same kindness shown to others can lead to a more loving and respectful relationship with the self. Forgiveness of past mistakes is highlighted as a crucial step towards self-love, encouraging individuals to learn from their errors and move forward without regret. Additionally, the article advises limiting exposure to social media to reduce negative comparisons that can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. The author concludes by affirming the effectiveness of these methods in their own life and encourages readers to adopt these practices for a happier existence.

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  • The author believes that reconnecting with one's inner child is a foundational step in over

How I Overcome My Loneliness

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Many of them have a problem of loneliness so today I am going to share my secret to love our self

Find your inner child this is one first step you can do take a look at yourself in the mirror now try to remember how you like it when you are at the age of four or five after you see your child’s version of you but the image inside you the next step is visualizing the child inside you and asking yourself what can I do to make him or her feel they are loved by me have you got the idea if you succeed in visualizing your inner child you will get some ideas inside your head about how you want to make the child inside you to feel happy to love to respect it and positive this is one step you can do before we move out onto our next step.

Looks at the way you treat others when you care or respect others what will you do to them will you give them love you come to them in such a good manner take an example you feel respect for your friends who are nice to you or you respect your lecturer your neighbor colleague or anyone else now looks at yourself when you give respect to others give them love and do the best for them why don’t you put that and treat yourself in the way you treat them will you give someone you love a space to become the true self you want to laugh with them do fun things with them you can do the same for yourself allow yourself to become you and find anything you love for instance you watch your favorite movies alone listen to the music or just give yourself space to find ease treat yourself as you treat someone you love or respect.

Forgive yourself we all have dark moments a moment when we stumble because we take a wrong turn the moment when we take our wrong choice those choices may haunt you for decades and you can’t do much other than keep blaming yourself you can take another way to love yourself more you may want to forgive yourself try to remember that no one is perfect we all have mistakes take a lesson from your mistakes and start to forgive yourself do you have any regrets about anything in the past will you forgive yourself and move on share with us what do you think about it.

Put away social media you can’t believe it or not but the fact is social media has become our problem nowadays social media is one source of comparison we see every day you see your friends are more successful than your exes are happier you see someone that you don’t even know in person is buying a new Lamborghini those are the things that trigger a comparison between us and others before you get depressed you can easily find the solution nothing more than putting away those Instagram Facebook Twitter Tik Tok or anything else if you do social media for business you can still do it but after your post about your business get out immediately or you can set a boundary, for instance, you only look at social media for no more than 30 minutes a day.

This all is working for me so I share to you use this and live happily

Loneliness
Self Improvement
Self Love
Self Care
Social Media Addiction
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