avatarBingz Huang

Summary

The author discusses personal growth through understanding their Human Design chart, particularly the defined Ajna center, and how this knowledge has helped them embrace and express their fixed mindset and beliefs confidently in their healing practice.

Abstract

The author expresses gratitude for the insights gained from their Human Design chart, specifically the defined Ajna center, which signifies a fixed set of beliefs and perspectives. Initially, the author struggled with the desire to remain non-judgmental and invisible in their energy healing practice, fearing the imposition of their beliefs on others. However, recognizing their defined Ajna center allowed them to accept their stubbornness and the challenge of embracing diverse viewpoints. The author emphasizes the importance of being clear about one's thoughts and beliefs to influence others positively, especially in their role as a healer. Writing has been a therapeutic tool for the author to explore and articulate their unique perspectives, leading to the publication of a book and continued sharing on social media and Medium. This act of sharing has not only built the author's confidence but also attracted like-minded individuals, reinforcing the idea that authentic expression is magnetic and beneficial for both the self and others.

Opinions

  • The author believes that knowing about their defined Ajna center has been instrumental in understanding their fixed mindset and has facilitated personal growth.
  • They initially thought that being non-judgmental meant suppressing personal opinions, but later realized the importance of expressing their thoughts and beliefs.
  • The author acknowledges the effort required to hold space for others' viewpoints while maintaining their own perspective.
  • They see their defined Ajna as an asset in their healing practice, allowing them to inspire others with empowering thoughts and beliefs.
  • Writing is viewed as a means of self-healing and clarification of thoughts, which has led to the author's increased confidence in sharing their insights.
  • The author values the resonance and connections formed with heart-centered, like-minded individuals through the sharing of their unique perspective on healing.
  • They have come to understand that their presence and perspective are valuable and that trying to be invisible is neither beneficial nor necessary in their role as a healer.

How I Grew To Love and Express My Fixed Mind

Learning about my defined Ajna Center has helped me share my thoughts and beliefs bravely

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I’m very grateful that learning about my Human Design chart has helped me to keep realigning to my true self.

Just knowing that I have a defined Ajna center has been helpful for me.

Having a defined Ajna means that I have a rather fixed set of beliefs and perspectives that does not change easily. This surprised me because I’ve always thought that I’m easy-going and would try to go with the majority if a group decision needs to be made.

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I Thought Being Non-Judgmental Means I Can’t Have My Own Opinions

When I first started facilitating energy healing for others, I was trained to be very mindful of any sort of energetic pressure I was putting on my clients.

I tried very hard not to express my opinions because I didn’t want to appear as being judgemental. I didn’t want to offend anyone with my beliefs.

I’d rather stay invisible.

But it took a lot of energy to stay invisible. My instincts would always drive me to express my thoughts. I’d get so bored and frustrated that no one else seems to have ideas that are similar to me, that I would just share mine, hoping to find some resonance with others.

Knowing that I have a defined Ajna has helped me make peace with how I can be stubborn and resist certain viewpoints from others. Not being able to accept others’ perspectives is normal for my defined Ajna. I just need to put in more effort to hold space and allow my friends and clients to share their thoughts and beliefs.

Our defined energy centers also show us how we influence the people around us most strongly. They show us how we are radiating who we are to our external world. If even I am unclear about my own thoughts and beliefs, how can I be clear about the way I influence others mentally?

If I desire to be a healer who facilitates healing for others, then my defined Ajna can definitely be seen as an asset where I can inspire others with more empowering thoughts and beliefs! I can work on refining my mind so that it becomes a brilliant healing tool too!

I Write To Explore and Clarify My Unique Perspectives

Writing has been extremely healing for me. I write to clarify my thoughts and to nurture my mind. In 2019, I committed to writing my first book — Empower Your Life with Gentleness, to share my perspective and insights on my personal healing journey. That led me to discover and share how sensitive souls like me benefit from practicing gentleness as a way to feel safe and free to be our true selves.

I continue to share my stories, ideas, and beliefs through social media and here on Medium. With every encouraging comment, I feel more confident to keep sharing. The more I share, the more I get to nurture my beautiful mind and feel safer in being myself.

What You Seek Is Seeking You

“What you seek is seeking you.” ~Rumi

It is so awesome to see this quote being reflected in my life. The more I share about what lights me up, the more I attract amazing, heart-centered, and like-minded people from all over the world. There are so many different types of healers who attract clients with different preferences for healing. I’m so glad that sharing my unique perspective on healing with gentleness has helped attract gentle clients who benefit most from my perspective and healing.

This has taught me that I have a beautiful mind. I need not, and should not make myself invisible in order to help others. My presence is important.

And going back to being a non-judgmental healer, I now understand that in order to not exert any energetic pressure on my clients, I need to keep making peace with who I am, even with my own differing thoughts, as I connect with them. It doesn’t benefit anyone for me to keep trying to be invisible, and this realizing this truth is such a relief!

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