‘How?’ comes after ‘Why?’

realize the need to love yourself and then jump to how to do so.

“LOVE YOURSELF”

Most abundantly used familiar phrase but difficult as hell to practice.

It doesn’t matter if you go on chanting around that you love yourself. Sorry to say, but still deep down you don’t love yourself enough. I know this well because once I was the one who bragged around loving myself until I figured out that my ‘I love myself’ is shallow than my ‘I love you’ to anyone.

Love doesn’t come by saying but proving through actions.

Loving oneself needs a massive amount of courage to be selflessly selfish not only in one’s sight and beliefs but the world’s too.

Presenting yourself to the world as being selfish is intolerable to the people around you; for them, selfish is utmost caring about one’s self and not giving a fuck to the world.

Even google proudly say,

“selfish is an adjective; (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one’s profit or pleasure.”

Then how can you not expect the people of the digital world to judge you for being selfish?

Well! In my vision, being selfish is about a bit more care, concern, and consideration to my conceptions than others and my actions will drive from the same ideology; it doesn’t mean that I won’t care about people or their theories.

but let me make it crystal clear, I will prioritize myself over them a bit more, even if it’s one percent more; cause I owe this to myself.

Well wrote in the book The Monk Who Sold his Ferrari by Robin Sharma,

“You truly cannot afford the luxury of a negative thought — not even one. On an average day the average person runs about sixty thousand thoughts through his mind. What really amazed me though, was that ninety-five percent of those thoughts were the same as the ones you thought the day before!”

this provides you the reason to be selfish, you can’t afford a single negative thought of others in your brain to think upon and ruin your day; when you can care about yourself a bit more, neglecting their thoughts about you and believing in yourself.

Therefore, loving oneself needs courage to appear as a villain in the eyes of the world.

Genuinely, none likes to portray the dark sides of oneself; That’s why it’s difficult to love yourself and let the whole world hate you without any fucks given.

Your call! Choose between ‘ruining your day cause of what others think about you and giving them all the considerations they want’ or ‘be a villain and consider your thoughts a bit more over others.’ I would like to choose the latter one, better to be selfish than selfless.

I’m proudly selfish and I stand by it.

Love yourself by just being a bit more selfish, you owe that to yourself.

SAVE YOUR DAY, EVERY FUCKING DAY!