How Amber Heard Is Exploiting An Important Movement
And why it is so important to address this
Now that we are all finally getting over the Will Smith and Chris Rock debacle, there is a new celebrity duo that are butting heads, and this time it is Johnny Depp and Amber Heard.
As you may or may not know Johnny Depp has taken Amber Heard (his ex-wife) to court over a $50 million lawsuit for defamation over an op-ed she wrote in 2018 for The Washington Post.
She had made claims that Depp physically, sexually, and mentally abused her and Depp is adamant that this is not true.
Due to her claims he has been struggling to get acting gigs and these claims have completely dragged Depp’s name through the mud.
His intention with this trial is that the truth will come out and that her allegations will be proven to be false.
I have had a browse on social media to see what the public’s general consensus is on this topic and where most people are standing. I have yet to see a single comment or post of support for Heard, but it is not surprising considering that the information that has been coming out about her has been damning and rapidly chipping away at her credibility.
Her personal assistant has testified that Heard spat in her face, psychologist Dr. Curry spoke of Heard’s personality disorder, and let’s be honest Heard’s lawyers aren’t doing her any favours either.
As this trial unravels it is clear to see that Heard is not the innocent victim she makes herself out to be and the evidence that is being revealed paints her as the abuser and a liar. Prior to her relationship with Depp, Heard had also been arrested for domestic violence. Whilst Depp’s ex-partner of 14 years Vanessa Paradis has said that Depp was never violent towards her, a stark contrast to Heard's claims.
With the op-ed that Heard wrote and going into this trial, she probably assumed that she was going to have the general support of women. That feminist groups and domestic abuse survivors would strongly back her but this has not been the case.
She played on the fact that her being a female somehow gave her leverage in this case and this disgusts me for so many reasons. Her manipulative nature probably counted on the fact that her false allegations would gain her support from many feminist and domestic abuse groups but it backfired.
She has exploited a very real cause, a cause that so many people have trauma from or are still victims of. Her claims now set these movements back because thanks to her there will be some victims who won’t be taken seriously in their claims of abuse and this will perpetuate further victim-blaming.
The ironic thing is her accusing Depp and shifting the heat off herself onto him is victim blaming in itself.
It’s hard enough for victims to come forward for the fear of not being supported or that the abuse will continue regardless of the claims, and it is people like Heard who make it even harder. It’s even more sickening that she thought she would be more credible as she was a woman making a claim against a man.
The only good thing about this case is that it highlights the fact that men suffer from domestic abuse too and this is something that should be taken seriously. There are plenty of men out there who get abused by women and would never strike them back, yet they are painted to be the bad guy.
Heard hired psychologist, Dr. Hughes, for her defense who backed Heard's claims of abuse at the hands of Depp. What was disturbing about her testimony was that Hughes acknowledges that Heard did strike Depp but that she is smaller than him, therefore her abusing him does not have the same intimidating effect as him abusing her.
“That’s just physics; that’s just proportional force,” — Dr. Hughes
There are serious double standards here. She is basically saying that it’s ok for someone smaller to be violent because it is not as serious. But if the abuser is larger it’s considered intimidating. This is an extremely problematic thing to say and she is fuelling the misconception that men cannot be abused.
One of my male friends was also abused by his ex, which is why I can sympathize, and I could see how it affected him mentally. He was a big guy, and it would be hard to believe just by looking at him, that he was a victim of abuse. No matter the size of a person they can still be a victim.
There is a sense of shame in them coming forward when there shouldn’t be. Abuse is abuse. Whether you are female or male you should be able to come forward and have a voice. But there are people in the world like Amber Heard who are twisted liars and use these movements to their advantage to make their case. She has made it harder for the true victims to come forward.
It is such a shame that with all the progress that has been made by women to be treated as equals to men and also to be taken seriously with our claims of unjust behaviour; there are women like Amber Heard who wish to exploit this for their own personal gain.
This case between Depp and Heard is one of manipulation and victim-blaming. Making allegations about something this serious to back an agenda is not ok and should never be.
Victims come in all genders, races, and ages and it’s a hard enough issue to deal with without liars coming into the mix making it harder for true victims to seek help.
Bringing awareness to the deceitful nature of certain cases can help us to abolish this pattern and ensure it doesn’t happen again. Especially for the sake of real victims.






