Here’s How It’s Possible to Be Better Than Other People
Take that 1% step into achieving it
You won’t be the only one on this path, but you will be in an excellent crowd.
Taking the first step to having your life figured out takes commitment.
But there’s no need to worry, I’m sure you have it.
Otherwise, you wouldn’t be reading this.
I already told you the step one, what’s next?
Self-awareness
We don’t like it when someone points out our flaws.
Usually, there’s a lot of defensive protests — it’s human.
But if you want to take a leap and be better than 99% of the people, you need to analyze what you DON’T have.
What are your goals? What bad habits do you have? What habits would you want to create?
What’s your overall vision — the potential reality of your life?
Making a vision board is cliché, so just take a piece of paper and a pen. Write everything down as lists, doodle, make charts — anything you want. Just figure out where you want to go from here.
Once you have it, there’s another step that’s waiting for you which is just as fun.
Create a plan
Now we have the self-awareness and the place we want to end up at.
We also have to commit to get from A to B.
What is between those two letters is what we need to fill in.
You need to create a plan to achieve your goals.
It’s going to be rough. You’re going to change up your plan a lot — I’m talking from the experience — you’ll want to quit and give up. You’ll think that you’re not meant for more…
Throw those thoughts away.
You’re worthy and you can do anything.
The positive mindset should now be the default — no more pessimistic thoughts.
Your first iteration of the plan is your map. Start doing everything you said you would and analyze every single step. See what works, and what doesn’t. Make a lot of effort and move things around.
It’s okay, the parts are supposed to be moveable.
Some would suggest to disappear for 6 months, work on yourself then come back brand new.
I say — obsession is the key.
Go in deep and forget to do anything else. Whenever you have time, research the topic of your interest.
Your entertainment now should revolve around that topic — books, podcasts, practice, reading other people’s experiences, social media filled with people like you, and people you talk to who also like the same thing.
Drown yourself in it.
That’s the way you become it.
But that seems so hardcore, right?
Burnout is inevitable…
To tell you a secret, you already know the solution to that problem. We covered it in the first place. But let me tell you again.
Have fun
The plan you made was based on your dreams. If it wasn’t, it should have been.
You’re doing what you love, you’re fixing your life to be one full of love instead of misery.
Think about your passions here, what do you enjoy the most?
That’s your end goal — making a living out of your passion.
And that’s fun. That’s a life a lot of people just dream about and never dare to step towards.
But you can do that. You can step forward and you can achieve it.
You are the master of your own life, you can craft it however you like.
You just need to obsess over it enough.
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