Self-Love Is the Key to Every Form of Manifestation.

Usually, the easiest way is the hardest to recognize.

How many YouTube videos about the Law of Attraction have you already swiped through?

How many articles about attracting a specific person have you already devoured?

I bet you meditate, visualize, script about your dreams and goals. Immerse yourself in the gratitude state, like all wishes would have already manifested.

So far, so good.

Where is it?

Where is the hot guy in the white Porsche?

Where is the private mansion on Turks and Caicos?

Do you believe you are worthy of it?

Do you believe the fulfilment of your dreams is even possible? Do you even dare to dream big?

The power lies in your self-worth.

You need to believe it before you can see it.

No manifestation has any right coming into your physical reality until you give it the incentive of your unwavering faith.

You need to believe the thing already exists, is effortlessly manageable, thus attracted.

What is more, you need to put faith in your worth so that the dream gravitates towards your magnetic energy.

Everyone, in their shadowed corner of the souls, is hunted by the possibility of not deserving love, attention or respect.

Ever since I have accepted my little quirks, imperfections, my insecurities, I cannot keep up with my manifestations.

Just a passing thought comes into a realization.

I have stopped constructing my worth on my external looks and how others see me. I no longer focus on what I wish to fix but appreciate what I do have.

Self-love, as the answer to it all.

Your reality is your mirror. Whatever you get to perceive is only possible so, because of the qualities you hold within yourself.

When you love yourself, I mean really really love yourself, like L.O.V.E. with sparkles on it, the whole package, your quirks and stretch marks, you get to love others with the same capacity.

Unconditional love is solely determined by your perspective of the world.

When you are love, you can only see others through compassion and understanding, no matter how vicious they may seem.

They don’t necessarily need to love you back.

It does not matter.

You don’t unconditionally love somebody because they are easy to love; kind, generous and sweet. That is not what unconditional love is about. You love because you want to surround others with your affection, not because you want to be loved back.

It won’t happen at the snap of your fingertips.

But difficult people are here for you, uncomfortable life experiences serve us, so we can master accepting the lesson.

You don’t have to tolerate a malicious person every day. You don’t even have to talk to them but radiate unconditional love towards them even by thought alone. The feeling will eventually follow.

We get to be better at this art every day. Little by little.

Is the approach hard to exercise?

At first, yes.

We have been conditioned into loving in exchange for something, giving as long as we get to receive.

As kids, we were taught to act nicely in order to gain the prize. Later on, we were programmed to get good grades to gain validation, give compliments to receive a smile back, make ourselves smaller so that we can fit into the world of more compelling personalities.

We forgot to nurture ourselves as the main hero of the story.

We have learnt how to criticize and whine at the unfairness of the world once we felt unworthy.

We got used to criticizing and complaining about the unfairness of the world, once we stepped into the “not worthy” mindset.

Judgment ruins it all.

Where there is judgment there is no compassion. Where there is judgment there is no understanding. Where there is judgment there is no place for growth.

Once you cease throwing labels around, unconditional love can be born.

Manifestation can be tricky by preoccupying your mind.

When you become an avid Law of Attraction practitioner, you might get crushed by the importance you apply to the manifestation itself.

You state the thing you are after is far more significant than you. Remember, you are the hero on the pitch, not the cheerleader.

Take a break from your visualization for a while.

Take the time to appreciate the mundane presented at your fingertips. As you focus on privileges, little things amounting to blessings, you get to recognize how worthy of life’s riches you are, and the life is proving it to you daily.

The more things in your life you get to appreciate, the more your self-worth skyrockets.

Inner self-growth, peace, abundance and security are so much more vital than any physical evidence.

Be selfish enough to make yourself a priority.

You cannot pour from an empty cup, right? You need to fill yourself with love in the first place before you can serve others as well.

Only then can you pour love in everyone else’s bowl, filling it with acceptance and warmth towards every human being.

Your manifestations depend on your belief in being worthy.

Every fruit as the manifestation has its seed. We are the seed, how often we overlook it. We need to water the seed, nurture it so that flowers can bloom.

I dare you to love yourself for who you are, your shape and sizes, what values determine your perspective. Your uniqueness is unmatched. Claim it as your powerhouse.

You might argue: “Of course I love myself, and I want all the best for me”.

Does saying no come easily to you? Do you put your needs first above others? Do you nurture your body with care and understanding

If the answer is “no”, don’t give me the attitude of a stubborn ten-year-old who is too scared to face the truth. You can only expand by confronting uncomfortable beliefs.

Stable self-esteem is the basis of your happiness.

Because I am selfish, I can love. I have the capacity to shower others with respect, joy, and appreciation.

I love myself before anyone else. I honour my wishes, my emotions (all of them) and my space for endless growth.

I don’t need likes, approvals, understanding. I carry it with me. I don’t seek truth outside. I have it in me. I don’t chase love all over the places. I live the love inside me.

The Universe is vast and abundant.

Its magnificence is shining light upon every particle of your being. The Universe is the creator, the source, the origin.

Since we are the mirror of the Universe, we are also filled with never-ending beauty, abundance and purpose.

We are the reflection of the continuum.

Don’t you ever forget that. You are beauty. You are wealth. You are pure love and joy.

Self-love is a celebration.

A celebration of who I am, who I am constantly becoming, all that is, all that surrounds me.

So let’s celebrate life instead of trying to fix something which is not broken at all. Rather than finding faults in the perfection of what is, appreciate what you get to experience.

What if we start cultivating self-love within us? Just start with that one daily ritual. Then, if all actions and words would derive from this place of love and understanding, think how much would we influence the world, nature and the humankind toward a better and safer future of our planet?

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