He Knows He Fumbled you
THE DESIRED WOMAN SERIES
Dating is an extreme sport these days. You think you know what's going on and next thing you don’t even know what just happened. You think you have found the one, but no, you have found the one harsh lesson after the other.
We used to need an open heart and willingness to date but now you need thick skin. You need to cage your heart with hard steel bars and wield a lock on it. You need to train hard and come prepared.
Dating is like boxing these days, you will be punched in the face multiple times but guess what, you still have to get up heal and get to it because once it goes well, it will be so rewarding all that pain might just be worth it.
Love is beautiful honestly, never give up.
But one notion especially us women have is wishing they know or notice or even come back one day and reiterate how much they fumbled us. I have news for you baby girl; he knows and you know what? He doesn't care.
He fumbled you and that's okay. Stop dwelling on it.
He knew what a beauty you were, he saw all your qualities, all your accolades, he knew your intelligence and certainly knew how you would add to his life. He knew and he saw and he most likely made use of that for the time he was in your life but he never intended to care at all. That’s not what he was there for.
People come with a set intention, especially in the dating world and they won’t steer from them and neither do they communicate them.
Set yours and stick by them. Your boundaries are your bestest friend.
That's why an air of mystery is vital for you and why you need to listen and watch closely. Because, while they will keep their truest intentions to themselves, they will expose them in conversation, actions and behaviours.
I know it gives you comfort thinking and believing that one day he will suddenly wake up and release he fumbled you.
If he didn't care then, he won't care now. If he didn't appreciate you then, he won't start now He certainly will never find another you, You’re top tier. But he never cared. Stop hoping he will one day.
What you need to do is make sure you don’t fumble yourself and keep selling yourself short!
