Harness a Perspective for Life
Hint: It is not what you see; it is how you think.

I recently got back to the gym. I notice how sore and out of gym shape I was after the first two weeks back. Mind you: I had been working out quite consistently with yoga, HIIT, upper body, lower body, and ab routines are thrown in there. Yet, somehow I was not ready for the pressure of weight put on my body. Was I doing something wrong? Could I do something different for the soreness?
No, and no, I was out of “gym shape” as many of us who just been trickling back into the gym. It takes time, weeks perhaps. My body is getting accustomed to taking the “no pain, no gain” more gingerly than before. What did not change during this whole time — my perspective.
First, I took the time during quarantine to understand how my body works. Then I was able to focus my attention on how my body feels. Finally, I was gathering the needed functions and movements I will need to reduce soreness.
Even with this preparation, nothing went as planned. I had to rethink my way of foreseeing what was to come. What I didn’t do was blame myself. Life is a learning experience. We are all meant to grow and develop in our own ways. During this time, it is easier for me to capture what needs to be changed. (Why you may have asked?)
The simple reason is to take reflection within and express it through your actions without. Give and take manifests itself during reflection.
The give of reflection is to do the following:
- Adopt a growth mindset.
- Revel in mistakes and successes.
- Set up actionable steps.
The take of reflection is to do the following:
- Be willing to know this is a learning experience.
- Mistakes are apart of lessons learned.
- Successes are also apart of lessons learned.
- Take action from the onset.
There are a few tools you can use to set yourself up for a better perspective.
A journal
A pen and a notebook are all you need. Think with your mind and write with your heart. The beauty in this process is unique and profound. It is individual to you. There is no magic wand or set of rules you need to follow. Take the time to be with yourself and flow with your writing.
A digital calendar
Use an app. Pop in some notes. Get set to jet. Life is too short not to have something plan out for the day-to-day. Regardless if it is what you plan on eating or who you plan on seeing. Make something happen for yourself and with somebody else.
A physical calendar
If you can see it, then you can achieve it. Sounds logical enough. This is why I believe in something tangible. Put it up in a certain place to view each day does wonder to your psyche. Even better if you can cross it off in the process. A sense of empowerment can feed your soul. Whenever owning your progress, you feel better and do better.
A Post-it note
These can be given many purposes. Words of affirmation could go over by your mirror. A reminder to each fruit can go over by your kitchen counter. Before you leave, near your door can be the wallet, keys, phone, and mask checklist. Remind yourself to practise gratitude every morning and night over by your night lamp. This allows your environment to be set up for you to thrive.
A planner
A tangible tool to bring around with you anywhere. You can take it out and view what you got going on. Different from using your phone and more effective, in all honesty.
In Summary
However, you decide to organize this, make it easy for you to track and stay on top of it. Also, make it fun by turning it into a game of sorts for you to craft. Each time you follow through with your plans, reward yourself. Use the tools to make you the most successful and find peace within this.





