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Summary

Dana, a GenX music enthusiast and writer, celebrated World Goth Day by taking her children to see The Sisters of Mercy, reflecting on the band's performance and the experience of sharing this part of her youth with her kids.

Abstract

On the occasion of World Goth Day, Dana, a music writer from the Pacific Northwest, recounted her experience of attending a live performance by The Sisters of Mercy, a band from her goth clubbing days, with her children. Despite the band's long hiatus from live shows and the noticeable effects of age on lead singer Andrew Eldritch's voice, the show was carried by the exceptional performance of guitarists Ben Christo and Dylan Smith. Dana muses on the nature of nostalgia acts, the band's decision to play new material, and the significance of hearing classic tracks like "This Corrosion" live. The article is a personal reflection on the intersection of music, memory, and parenting, as Dana introduces her children to a formative band from her past.

Opinions

  • The author is appreciative of the opportunity to see The Sisters of Mercy perform live, despite the band's long absence from the stage and changes in the lead singer's vocal abilities.
  • There is a sense of nostalgia and mixed feelings about the authenticity of the performance, given the band's lineup changes and the inclusion of unreleased songs in the setlist.
  • Guitarist Ben Christo is highlighted as a standout performer, impressing both the author and her teenage daughter with his musicianship and charisma.
  • The author questions whether a band can still be considered the original when only one founding member remains and whether fans should expect to hear mostly classic hits during a nostalgia show.
  • Dana expresses a deep connection to the band's music from her youth and is grateful for the chance to share this experience with her children, though she acknowledges that not all her kids were equally enthusiastic about the goth show.

Happy World Goth Day! I Celebrated by Taking My Kids to See Sisters of Mercy

As one does

My eldest daughter at her first goth show. Photo by the author.

Happy World Goth Day to all who celebrate!!

I awakened this World Goth Day — Monday morning, May 22 — feeling very, very tired. That’s because last night, I took my kids to see classic goth band The Sisters of Mercy at the Moore Theater.

As one does on a Sunday night.

I’ve reviewed countless shows during my tenure with Three Imaginary Girls and rallied many a workday morning, exhausted but buoyed by the musical magic from the evening before.

It’s a skill I’m happy to pass along to my kids.

I’m not going to review the show too much, as objective analysis would require a level of criticism I don’t want to place on one of my favorite dark dance era bands from my glorious nightclubbing youth.

Instead, in typical blogging format, I shall provide a list of facts and musings about the show:

  • The band hasn’t played live in over 15 years, and to my recollection has always been tour-shy. This was my first (and likely, final) chance to see them perform.
  • Frontman Andrew Eldritch — long known as the godfather of goth, with his black hair, pale and angular features, and resonate, booming baritone — now lacks the hair, angularity, and sadly, the voice. He remains pale. Aging is such an asshole.
  • Guitarists Ben Christo and Dylan Smith carried the show. Ben, in particular, is a guitar virtuoso, a decent singer, and a charismatic showman. Also, he’s a total snack. My 15-year-old was smitten.
  • For the notes Eldritch couldn’t hit — or possibly, the lyrics he couldn’t remember — Christo was right there, singing along.
  • Nostalgia shows are tricky. Are you really seeing the band if only one original member remains, and the supporting cast carries nearly all the performance? Or did we watch an excellent Sisters of Mercy cover band, who happened to bring the original singer with them to support their act?
  • Is it a good practice when nostalgia bands fill half their set with new songs, instead of simply playing the classics the fans came to hear? If the band hasn’t released an album since 1992 — so all the “new” songs are unreleased — does this change your answer?

All that said , it was incredible to finally and at long last hear “This Corrosion” played live, the final encore of the night. Afterwards, the band turned the lights to the house, gestured their thanks to us, and all took deep, simultaneous bows.

They seemed legitimately humbled to be here, and in my mind, that bow was like a tribute to the splendor and legacy that Eldritch has left for all of us. I doubt he will tour again.

For all its faults, I consider it a wonder I ever got to see them perform. So, I loved the show.

This World Goth Day, I’m teeming with dark gratitude.

Ben Christo and Andrew Eldridge of The Sisters of Mercy. Hey now, hey now now. Photo by the author.
The Sisters of Mercy take a bow. Photo by the author.

PS —My eldest loved the show. She just sent me these. Like I said earlier, she was a bit smitten.

Ben Christo of Sisters of Mercy. Photo by my daughter, used with permission.
Ben Christo of Sisters of Mercy. Photo by my daughter, used with permission.
Ben Christo of Sisters of Mercy. Photo by my daughter, used with permission.

PPS — My younger daughter? Not so much into the goth show. Ahhh well.

My child, bored at the Sisters of Mercy. Photo by the author.

Greetings!

I’m Dana, aka All My Little Words, a GenX word nerd living in the Pacific Northwest with a whole lot of little words to share. I write about career, music, feminism and perimenopause, cooking, ambition, fun, parenting, and more, with an offbeat perspective on how and why the world works (or doesn’t).

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