Good Friends Show Up When They Are Needed Most AND Leave A Legacy
Reflection: What are you grateful for today?
A friend recently passed — suddenly and unexpectedly, and leaving two children behind.
After three days of uncontrollable tears, I could speak of the situation. Now, three weeks later, the tears are back.
The tears have returned because of something beautiful.
My husband and his friends are embracing the teenage child like one of their own.
This eclectic group, who honestly seem like a dynamic of “misfits” from the outside looking in, are lifting up this child with utmost kindness and care.
Their value of friendship has emerged so powerfully, it is truly inspiring.
This is why today, I am particularly grateful for good friendships.
As a socially awkward introvert, good friendships are few and far between for me, so this combination is why I don’t take such relationships for granted.
Friendships provide a sense of belonging and support.
They make you feel comfortable, safe and cared for.
They offer social support and help us navigate tough times.
They don’t judge us for our problems.
They show up, especially when we need them most.
They let us be our authentic selves — the good, the bad, and they call us out on the ugly.
Good friends give us the space to grow and make mistakes.
They are there to cheer us on through our triumphs — and are a part of why the triumph exists in the first place.
They give credit when and where credit it due.
They are not afraid to acknowledge their own shortcomings.
They help you get through difficult times, and they surround your family when something unimaginable happens.
No one plans to bury their child.
No one plans to leave their children before their adult years.
But, when such circumstances arise, having good friends to hold you and embrace your loved ones is a gift like none other.
Watching this unfold is love and friendship in its purest and most beautiful form.
What’s one thing I am grateful for?
Good friends.
Great friends.
Friends who show their love and appreciation as the number one priority when they are needed most.
Dear friend, your legacy is in the commitment to your friends. They are showing up more than you could ever imagine for your family. They are holding your mom, embracing your children, supporting your wife and championing your character with humorous props for game night because… they got you — and they won’t let go in the best, most thoughtful and inspiring way imaginable.
Liberty Forrest, Author sets sail with a beautiful metaphor on the human dynamic. This dynamic is a part of what makes the eclectic group of friends I mention so special — the differences are embrace, honoured and treasured.
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