Going To The Nightclub As A Hot Girl

A friend told me what it’s like to be an attractive woman in a nightclub.

“I have a really bad hangover. I drank 7 cocktails yesterday while partying” a friend told me the other day. When I said that this must have been expensive as hell, she said, “Well, I didn’t pay for any of them myself.”

All seven drinks were paid for by men. That’s interesting, I thought, so I asked her about her experiences in nightclubs.

After all, I have often observed that attractive women are treated differently than men in a club.

Women Are Preferred At The Entrance

The special treatment of women already begins outside the club. If a nightclub in my city is already very crowded and not many more people are allowed in anymore, women are almost exclusively accepted to enter.

While I have often not been allowed into a club, my friend has never experienced this. Although she goes partying more often than I do.

Isn’t that a little sexist?

Sex Is Treated As A Female Service

As my friend described, women are often bought drinks from men. What the motivation of men for this investment is, should be obvious.

But does this strategy work? Is it enough to be nice and buy a drink to take a lady home?

My friend says quite clearly no. “Sex is not a transaction. I don’t let myself be bribed with drinks. But if I feel like having a drink, I’ll accept it anyway. Although I know what hidden agendas most men have. “ is what she says on the subject.

I have never seen women trying to win over a man they find attractive by buying them drinks, to be honest. It almost seems like sex is a resource that women possess and men pursue. In other words, sex seems to be seen as a female service.

According to Steve Stewart-Williams, author of “The Ape That Understood The Universe,” this is demonstrated by the following facts:

Men are more likely than women to give potential sexual partners gifts such as flowers and extravagant meals. Men are virtually the sole consumers of prostitutes, and prostitutes are overwhelmingly women.

And female porn stars are paid more than the males- a genuine gender pay gap.

Why is that?

The evolutionary mating strategies of the sexes provide an explanation. This situation probably stems from the fact that men are generally more interested in casual sex than women and have a greater desire for a variety of sex partners.

This makes them much less choosy than women, who tend to prioritize the selection of the best possible partner.

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Uninvited Approach Attempts

However, I also have to mention the other side of the coin. While women have the advantage of free drinks and easier entry, there is also a huge downside.

Drunk men often approach them a little too aggressively. This is often very unpleasant to watch and is often on the verge of sexual assault. I’ve almost been involved in a fight once or twice after I pointed out to a man that the woman he was trying to approach didn’t seem interested and that he should leave her alone.

My friend also confirmed that it is very unpleasant and for her the biggest disadvantage of partying.

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