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f your home, the million-dollar question is whether he is receiving a clean therapeutic massage at all.</p><p id="ee05">You would probably feel awkward confronting him as a wife or girlfriend. You may believe that he takes care of your needs at home and gives you everything you desire. So, instead of probing him, you decide to remain silent and let him do his thing to avoid an argument with him.</p><p id="2102">Our masseuse informed us that there are specific hand strokes that arouse clients. Even if your man does get that home service massage, keep an eye on him to ensure he does not get a quick one.</p><p id="0681">Let us also hope that he gets relaxed by the Swedish massage and not by the happy ending, or you may smack him down.</p><h2 id="405a">Do-it-yourself programs are not always there to save</h2><p id="bb8e">Stress is the most common vocabulary we know at home because men love to use it when they feel exhausted from the demands of life and work.</p><p id="9aa0">Sometimes, you may be the ones causing high-stress levels to your partner. Be mindful that we can be a source of stress to people around us.</p><ul><li>People have a lot of things to nag about</li><li>Discussion about finances can ruin the mood of anyone</li><li>Giving negative feedback when our partners are tired from work.</li></ul><p id="2e9b">If your man is feeling stressed, take out your selfishness and put on your clothes of selflessness. Take the place of any masseuse and do this instead.</p><ul><li>Massage him from head to toe. Once in a while is enough. You do not have to do it every day.</li><li>Diffuse oils in your room. My personal favorite is lavender and peppermint.</li><li>Know your man’s love language (such as acts of service, words of affirmation are common to men. Make an effort to wow your man with the food I serve and pack for him.</li></ul><h2 id="9501">Just say it</h2><p id="efcd">Every man wants to feel appreciated. You do not need to flatter them all the time. Lea

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rn how to verbalize gratefulness.</p><p id="b167">It is not enough that they know we are thankful, but you have to say it. Such as “thank you for working very hard.” “Thank you for being a good leader of our family.”</p><p id="3bdb">Men know if you are playing around with them. So, when you say a word, it must be heartfelt — say what you mean and mean what you say.</p><p id="d8e1">Make your partner your priority. Like what my 70-year-old aunt told me, “always treat your man like a king — and he will surely treat you like a queen.”</p><p id="2855">This saying also resonates with me “the only “pride” that you have at home should be “pride chicken” and nothing else.” By the way, that is half-truth and half-joke!</p><p id="24de">Because it is so true as the Bible says:</p><blockquote id="83d2"><p><i>Pride goes before — destruction and haughtiness before a fall.</i></p></blockquote><blockquote id="6494"><p><i>Proverbs 16:18</i></p></blockquote><h1 id="c794">Final Thoughts</h1><p id="ae6d">Be wary of massage parlors. Even if the establishments are licensed, it is vital to read the reviews and feedback. As you may be aware, numerous massage spas provide a variety of services once you enter.</p><p id="2e74">It is always preferable to have service at your home. Aside from protecting your man, you can both enjoy the massage, making this a great bonding routine.</p><p id="596c">Massage him yourself. It is the best option for living a worry-free life. Learn how to massage — and then teach it to your husband.</p><p id="8355">Aside from saving money, both of your well-being as partners will improve. You can use the happy ending approach as much as you want here.</p><p id="e5a4">Consider becoming a Medium member if you enjoy reading stories like these. It costs $5 per month and gives you unlimited access to Medium stories. If you sign up through my <a href="https://dennis-desilvaph.medium.com/membership">link</a>, I will receive a small commission.</p></article></body>

Going Out for a Massage Is Not Always a Bad Idea

If your man goes to the spa all the time, investigate

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In the early days, my parents were busy with their business. They get a massage once a week as part of their relaxation.

I recall our family masseuse and — we called her manang Marie — who came to our house twice a week. Some twenty-five years ago, she was consistently giving us a good massage service.

When I saw how relaxed my parents were because of the golden touch of Marie, I asked my father if I could get a good massage as well, even if it were only for 30 minutes.

Now that I am a working adult and married, I have introduced this practice to my family. Even my eight-year-old daughter has been enjoying this luxury that has become a family tradition.

The massage with an extra

Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.

1 Corinthians 6:18 NLT

There is nothing wrong with a body massage; however, we should be cautious about where we get it. The location of the space usually determines whether it is authentic or not. If it is in the red light district, expect that massage with an extra service.

If your man wants to get a massage, it is best to hire a home service. You can keep an eye on him to make sure no monkey business is going on. And if he receives his massages outside of your home, the million-dollar question is whether he is receiving a clean therapeutic massage at all.

You would probably feel awkward confronting him as a wife or girlfriend. You may believe that he takes care of your needs at home and gives you everything you desire. So, instead of probing him, you decide to remain silent and let him do his thing to avoid an argument with him.

Our masseuse informed us that there are specific hand strokes that arouse clients. Even if your man does get that home service massage, keep an eye on him to ensure he does not get a quick one.

Let us also hope that he gets relaxed by the Swedish massage and not by the happy ending, or you may smack him down.

Do-it-yourself programs are not always there to save

Stress is the most common vocabulary we know at home because men love to use it when they feel exhausted from the demands of life and work.

Sometimes, you may be the ones causing high-stress levels to your partner. Be mindful that we can be a source of stress to people around us.

  • People have a lot of things to nag about
  • Discussion about finances can ruin the mood of anyone
  • Giving negative feedback when our partners are tired from work.

If your man is feeling stressed, take out your selfishness and put on your clothes of selflessness. Take the place of any masseuse and do this instead.

  • Massage him from head to toe. Once in a while is enough. You do not have to do it every day.
  • Diffuse oils in your room. My personal favorite is lavender and peppermint.
  • Know your man’s love language (such as acts of service, words of affirmation are common to men. Make an effort to wow your man with the food I serve and pack for him.

Just say it

Every man wants to feel appreciated. You do not need to flatter them all the time. Learn how to verbalize gratefulness.

It is not enough that they know we are thankful, but you have to say it. Such as “thank you for working very hard.” “Thank you for being a good leader of our family.”

Men know if you are playing around with them. So, when you say a word, it must be heartfelt — say what you mean and mean what you say.

Make your partner your priority. Like what my 70-year-old aunt told me, “always treat your man like a king — and he will surely treat you like a queen.”

This saying also resonates with me “the only “pride” that you have at home should be “pride chicken” and nothing else.” By the way, that is half-truth and half-joke!

Because it is so true as the Bible says:

Pride goes before — destruction and haughtiness before a fall.

Proverbs 16:18

Final Thoughts

Be wary of massage parlors. Even if the establishments are licensed, it is vital to read the reviews and feedback. As you may be aware, numerous massage spas provide a variety of services once you enter.

It is always preferable to have service at your home. Aside from protecting your man, you can both enjoy the massage, making this a great bonding routine.

Massage him yourself. It is the best option for living a worry-free life. Learn how to massage — and then teach it to your husband.

Aside from saving money, both of your well-being as partners will improve. You can use the happy ending approach as much as you want here.

Consider becoming a Medium member if you enjoy reading stories like these. It costs $5 per month and gives you unlimited access to Medium stories. If you sign up through my link, I will receive a small commission.

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