# Summary

The article challenges the stereotype that women prefer "bad boys" such as criminals and drug dealers, suggesting instead that women want good men who are engaging and highlighting the societal issue of men being raised to objectify women, with a call for balance and mutual respect in relationships.

# Abstract

The author critiques the pervasive cultural narrative that women are primarily attracted to dangerous or criminal men, emphasizing that women actually desire men who are interesting and not dull. The piece argues that the objectification of women by men, ingrained in societal upbringing, leads to a cycle where both genders become disposable to each other. It calls for a truce between men and women, urging men to abandon harmful stereotypes and for a reevaluation of male culture that perpetuates these myths. The article also points out that legendary male figures admired by women tend to be kind and wholesome, not "bad boys." It suggests that men should reflect on their actions and societal teachings rather than blaming women for relationship outcomes.

# Opinions


- The stereotype that women love "bad boys" is a myth; women want engaging, non-boring partners who are also good men.
- Men are often raised to see women as disposable objects for sexual conquest, which perpetuates a cycle of disposability in relationships.
- The objectification of one gender leads to the objectification of the other, creating an imbalanced dynamic that affects both men and women negatively.
- The media often mocks women who are hurt by men, contributing to a culture where men only express concern when they feel disposable themselves.
- The author posits that balance in how genders treat each other is necessary and that this balance is a natural law or universal principle.
- The article criticizes the notion that women are only interested in bad

Girls like Criminals and Drug Dealers”…and BTS Doesn’t Exist ‘Cause I Said So.

Korean boys. All named “Chad.”

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Women all want “Rapist and Drug dealers”, is what this guys’ post said. It was the typical “all women love bad boys” we hear so much. (over and over again)

Women don’t love bad boys. We just want good men who won’t bore us to death

We also don’t want men who will use us to do all the boring work and child care as they have fun and live life.

When I hear men like this rant about women wanting to date “bad boys”, I can’t help remember that most men are raised to see women as objects and disposable. They are taught to have sex with women and then toss her aside to move on to the next.

Do they care if these women get hurt? Nope. The media makes fun of them. It’s her fault for trusting him. Men only seem to care when they too become disposable. They rant, rave, and cry about how women break up with them “for nothing.”

Well, once you make one type of human disposable, we ALL become disposable. So just like men like to “f**k and chuck,” women, women will “buck and chuck” men.

Neither behavior is good in my opinion, but the world needs balance.

It’s a man's world, and ya’ll made the rules. But it’s still God's universe, and there will be balance. Objectify one side, and the other side must be objectified too. Even Stevens, yall!

So men and women either come to a truce, or we both see how low we can go.

And part of men's side of the truce will be to stop with the bullshit already.

Does BTS, the popular boy band that young girls and women idolize all over the world, look like rapists and drug dealers to you? What about Michael Jackson? What about all the guys who have this kind, wholesome image that women have always gone crazy for?

Girls like all kinds of boys, from the quiet shy ones to the more mysterious and methodical types. But it’s actually the clean cut, kind ones that become legendary to women all around the world, not “bad boys.”

So ya’ll can stop lying that women are only into bad men. If you feel like you’re not getting selected by women or “buck and chucked”, maybe it’s time to look at what you guys are doing wrong, or what male culture is teaching wrong, rather than trying to put all the burden on women.

Because what goes around comes around. Now that women have grown tired of the nonsense, these same men are scrambling to try to save face. Now they are the “bad boys”, “bad men”, and “rapists and drug dealers”, but I don’t see women lining up to date them.

Guess maybe they should have made sure the BS they were saying was true before they said it!

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