Getting Through Tough Times

Don’t give up

We all go through things but hearing things will be ok, is not enough at tough times. We go through tough things, whether we are buried in debt, emotionally hurt or don’t know what our purpose is.

Going through debt is hard, having to cut down on things and dealing with the pressure of survival. This world can be unhuman with things we need as everything is for profit and the government drives on debt. Yet we are still here, the bills are still pilling up as well as the debt. Some of us struggle managing or just finding out how to make more than enough money to get out of survival mode and start living. We have tough choices and decisions to make. Although not all of us know what we want to do getting up tomorrow fighting through the rules of society and looking for a thousand ways to make it work is tough. The first thing we except in these times are that it will be hard. It is easier said than done, to get up and try again tomorrow, yet we do. Reforming ourselves is hard but I feel like in your hardest times are the best times to reform ourselves. Find the things we love try to make a career and to lessen the hurt of debt. Everything comes into one at these times and accepting the truth is the hardest. We need to focus on making money in multiple ways without giving all of our energy to money. If we do this it will lessen the load. That’s the hardest mentality to adapt to because we have to constantly think about what we are good at.

We find ourselves fighting through hurt and misplaced friendships. Even when we are in debt it is very important to surround ourselves with people who emotionally support us. Is hard to let go of some people we love that aren’t good for us, but we have too. The reason we have to do this is because the hurt of disappointment will keep coming back to us. When we are in debt and want to come out of debt, we have to put all our energy towards fixing that debt. We all don’t want to lose ourselves to debt, we all want to be able to live, take care of ourselves, and start living. That means we have to learn to let go of people who aren’t good for us. We know who this people are, always downing us, making us hurt with words, and getting in the way our success. We can’t allow that; I know this is the hardest part. We most surround ourselves with people that motivate us. Trust me there’s at least one person we take for granted that knows exactly what we need to get back up. People who are willing to help get us back up, not by paying our debt but by reminding us of who we are and giving us the tools, we need to get back up.

Falling can be a blessing in disguise, in our lowest time, people who were never on our team leave us and people who are on our team, step up. We may feel alone, but we aren’t, we most no matter how hard or hurt we are let this people go. Cry and feel how you feel, start a day at a time. I know those days that are hard to walk out the house. Stay in sometimes, take the time to feel. When you are ready to walk out, do it. Don’t let hurt win, get up, even if it’s just to go to the store or because people on your team are trying to help you out. When you are ready do it get up, I never let anyone get me up unless I’m ready. Those people will help you, set your boundaries again and day by day, you will start feeling more like yourself. After you feel like yourself, you will feel like you have nothing, like you wasted time healing and you don’t know what’s next. At this point, this is when the person that knows you the most will step up and see your ready. They will take you to do things you like to remind you who you are, or even show you options on what you can do next by pointing out your best abilities. This is the point you feel your emotional revival and you don’t know where you will go next but you know you are capable. Still having all these problems are in your head but you feel ready to take on the challenge we call life. We can’t move forward without self-honesty and acceptance, and we most allow the right people in our life. Just like we are the villain in someone’s life, we are the hero in someone else life. We are human, as long as you got up today, that’s a step to trying to better yourself. Keep going, when you feel like there’s no way and you can’t take the pain and hurt, that’s when God will show you the way.