Summary

The article outlines a three-step process for finding a meaningful and lasting romantic relationship, emphasizing self-improvement, belief in a higher power, and active participation in dating.

Abstract

The article "Get Un-Single and Into a Magical Relationship in 3 Steps" provides guidance for individuals seeking a deep and enduring romantic relationship. It begins by stressing the importance of personal growth and self-awareness, suggesting that becoming an awesome person is essential to attract someone equally amazing. The second step advocates for believing in a higher power or "magic" to foster the conditions for a magical relationship, recommending practices like meditation, visualization, and creating a sacred altar. Lastly, the article encourages proactive engagement in the dating scene through online platforms, social events, and everyday interactions, while prioritizing the search for a partner. The author underscores that by following these steps, one can transform their love life and find their "One."

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The author believes in the power of self-improvement as a prerequisite for attracting a suitable partner, implying that like-minded individuals attract each other.
There is a strong endorsement for spiritual or mystical practices as a means to manifest a loving relationship, suggesting that logical or analytical approaches alone are insufficient.
The article promotes the idea that one's relationship status is within their control and can be changed through deliberate action and mindset shifts.
It is implied that therapy, self-help resources, and coaching can be valuable tools in the journey towards self-improvement and readiness for a relationship.
The author expresses a personal recommendation for the book "Calling In The One" by Katherine Woodward Thomas, indicating its significant impact on their own life.
The concept of "woo-woo" practices, such as wearing love charms or keeping visuals of happy couples, is presented as a legitimate and effective approach to finding love.
The author emphasizes that seeking a relationship should be a priority, not a casual or secondary pursuit, and that making time for dating is crucial.

Get Un-Single and Into a Magical Relationship in 3 Steps

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This article is for all ya singles out there who would like to be UN-single. And not just in a loosey-goosey datey way with someone. But to get un-singled in order to be with a truly loving and amazing person with whom you can share a crazy good long-lasting relationship.

I have no judgments whatsoever on what type of relationship you want to be in (or if you choose not to be in one), but if you’re currently interested in heading down Casual Cul-de-sac or One Night Stand Street, then maybe this info isn’t for you.

But, if you’re ready to get the REAL relationship party started, here are the big three steps to take.

STEP 1: WORK ON YOURSELF

There’s just no skipping this one, guys. If you want to be with an awesome person, you need to know how to draw that awesome person to you. And this will only happen when you become that awesome person yourself. Like attracts like.

If you have never been in a relationship, or have not been in one for a very long time, or are continually drawn to the same kind of person who ain’t cuttin’ it for whatever reason (Lord knows I used to be), then you’ve got to hit the pause button to explore why. Otherwise, it’s pretty likely you’re going to continue down the same path and not get the results you want.

No matter if you have any level of low self-esteem, and no matter how crappy or nonexistent your current relationship may be — YOU CAN CHANGE THINGS. If you choose to do so.

I am totally pro doing whatever it takes to become your best self. Maybe this means therapy, reading self-help books, spiritual retreats, hiring a professional life or dating coach — or all of the above! There are numerous routes to finding your way to your True Beautiful Incredible self, but there are no shortcuts.

It is a process and one that is completely worth your time and energy. Because the results will blow you away.

A book that seriously changed my life and then some is Calling In The One by Katherine Woodward Thomas. I have read it at least three times, and have also attended a few of Katherine’s online workshops. It is a powerful force filled with practical wisdom and love, and I cannot recommend it enough to anyone who is seeking their “One”.

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STEP 2: BELIEVE IN MAGIC

I didn’t just throw the word ‘Magical’ into the title of this article for nuthin’. Getting into a magical relationship will take — MAGIC!

Am I talking about spells and potions or rabbits jumping out of black hats? No, when I say Magic, what I mean is Higher Power. Maybe you want to call this Spirit, Angel Guides, God — whatever works for you. And it is absolutely crucial that you believe in this guiding loving force.

Eh? The analytical logical types are raising an eyebrow. Um, seriously?

Yes, seriously. Logical left-brainer thinking won’t draw in a Magical relationship. Magic will.

But it’s not just the believing part — you also need to act on this magic. How? There are a ton of ways to do this, and many books and articles about it are out there. Let me list a few ways here, and maybe you’ll also be able to come up with your own personal methods too!

- Meditate regularly about your Awesome partner who is on their way (15 minutes is fine)

- Write a Valentine’s Day card or love letter to yourself from your future partner

- Make a sacred altar where you can pray to your Love Guides and Angels about your future partner (this can be done in a small and simple way)

- Keep visuals (at least one or two) of happy couples around your personal space. Keep them where you will see them every day

- Wear a love charm (chain, ring, pendant, etc) as a reminder that your Awesome partner will be with you soon

- Read cute (yes, ‘cute’ is the operative word) stories about how two people in a couple found each other

Is this too woo-woo?

Well, woo-woo is where it’s at. So don’t skip Step 2.

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STEP 3: GET OUT THERE

If you are faithfully doing Steps 1 and 2, and are feeling in a joyful head space, then now is the time to get yerself out there.

Get on one or more online dating sites if you’re not already on them. Go to the speed dating and mingling events. Have friends and family set you up. Flirt with the cute guy or girl in the grocery store.

Just get out there. Go, go, go. No excuses. What are you waiting for?

If you really want to be in a relationship, then make the time and space for it. If you are finding that you are too busy to date, well, what other areas can you pull back on in your life?

Finding your Amazing Partner needs to become a top priority, not just a side hustle when you have a few minutes to spare.

And I have a sense that if you have done Steps 1 and 2 very well, then Step 3 shouldn’t take too long.

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When it comes to relationships, many of us go directly to Step 3. And for some lucky ducks, a magical relationship may come out of just putting themselves out there. But I would wager that in those cases, then the person was already in a wonderful place with themselves and ready to receive their Awesome Partner.

For a ton of us, we will save A LOT of time and energy seeking out our true love if we focus on Steps 1 and 2 first.

It’s TOTALLY worth it.

Good love-y luck!!!

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