Fundamental truth, in relationships, feelings change.

Isn’t it funny how we look backward using the light that justifies whatever decisions we’ve made. We parade our current “happiness” around as proof without doubt that we were right. Some even pretend to be happy in order to appear right. Yet, for every person who proclaims the wisdom of leaving a good relationship because it was “the right thing for me” there is at least one who will say that it was wise for them to stay, in spite of how they felt in the moment. It’s magic. When you look backward on almost any other life situation, whatever decisions you’ve made end up having been the right ones for you. Maybe it’s true that the areas of your life that you choose to put energy into work themselves out to produce lasting happiness. Being in the middle of living life, I often wonder and ask myself… Should I stay or should I go, and in the end, does it matter? Right now, I’m still here, and I’m glad that I stayed.