From Hiding Myself to Shining My Light

Now, a powerful force not to be reckoned with.

We try to dim our light to please others because we are social animals and we want to fit in and be accepted by the group.

It’s natural for humans to want to feel accepted and liked by others. And one way of achieving this is by behaving in a way that is consistent with the values of the group.

If the group values modesty, then people will tend to behave modestly. If the group values intelligence, then people will tend to behave intelligently.

And if the group values being down-to-earth and humble, then people will tend to behave that way too.

I used to hide away, afraid of what others might think or say. I was scared to show the world who I really was.

But then I realized that by hiding myself, I was doing a disservice not only to the world but also to myself.

There’s something about shining your light that just feels SO GOOD.

Wearing what I want.

Doing what I want.

Talking to who I want.

Loving who I want (my beloved Dimitri, of course!)

It’s like you’re finally revealing your true self to the world and saying, “Here I am! Love me or hate me, this is who I am!”

By being true to yourself and honoring your own values, you create a strong foundation for shamelessness.

From this space of authenticity, it becomes easier to act in accordance with your own truths, even when they go against the grain or make others uncomfortable.

In order to step into your power shamelessly, start by getting clear on what’s important to you.

What do you stand for?

What makes you feel alive and vibrant?

Once you have a sense of your authentic values, start living more in line with them.

This may mean making different choices at home and at work, or speaking up for yourself more often.

Remember that it’s okay to be different and to stand out from the crowd. In fact, it’s essential if you want to live life the way you want to, on your terms.

Now, I live for me. Whoever doesn’t like it can *bounce.*

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