Travel
I Found a Friend in Burghausen, Germany
Salzach River, the Castle, and Friendships!

“You must take a look at the castle from this side — it gives you a different perspective.”
I am glad we took the advice.
I had met our gracious host Hans (name changed for privacy) for the first time, but it seemed I had known him for ages. The hour-long drive from the Salzburg train station was enough to break the ice. The kids had taken a liking to him and were already exchanging jokes.
Discovering a gem while vacationing is always a bonus. Our previous visits to Germany were limited to urban centers such as Munich and Berlin. This time around we wanted to experience the laid-back small-town Bavarian vibe.
On our last day in Switzerland, we found Burghausen — a small town on the border of Austria and Germany by the river Salzach. Sophia (name changed for privacy) lives in Burghausen, I had recalled.
“Who is Sophia?” My wife had asked.
First Impressions
The bar had been set quite high in the prelude to our arrival. The mesmerizing train ride from Interlaken, Switzerland passing by the majestic Alps had left us all in awe.
As we crossed the tiny bridge over the Salzach River, it was impossible to miss the Castle towering above Burghausen — the castle lit in glory was a sight for the ages.
The kids hit it off immediately with our hosts’ children as they figured out a way to communicate in English, German, and Urdu.
The kids have a universal language and find ways to bond — something that the adults can learn from.

The next morning was spent in the neighborhood park. People were enjoying their stroll in the summer. The kids were running around and chattering non-stop. It was refreshing to see every passerby beam a wide smile at us.
I was catching up with Sophia, and both of us were eager to share the events from the last 14 years of our lives. That’s how long it had been since we last met.
Friendship stands the test of time!

The Castle at Night

Walking through the castle at night had a different aura. The cobblestone walkway and the ambiance took me back in time. I wondered what life in the castle would have looked like, two hundred years ago.
I could visualize people walking around us — going about their business. Mothers calling their children to bed. Men and women finishing up their last chores of the day.
We stood on an elevated structure in the castle and glimpsed at the town below. The atmosphere oozed serenity, and life had come to a standstill.

We could hear distant music. “There is a music festival in town,” Sophia explained. I nodded and silently surveyed the town below. I knew a photograph could never do justice to the view I was witnessing. So, I wanted to etch it into my memory.
We sat down on a bench. Sophia was telling me how she had met Hans, and I was telling her about my life. We were sharing our stories of traveling — our shared passion which had been the stimulus to our friendship all those years ago.
“Do you still play the guitar?”. I shook my head, “Haven’t touched one in a long time.
“What about you? Do you still sing?” She just smiled. I knew the answer.
The hustle and bustle of life gets you. We often forget what we valued so much in our younger days. Or maybe just outgrow it.
Chip (her dog), came running and barked. It was time to go home.

I took one last farewell glance at the castle. It meant something to me now. It was more than just a medieval structure. It symbolized the memory of me invigorating my friendship with Sophia. It represented the conversation we had had that night — it was engraved in my memory as a symbol of our friendship.
Postscript
I had almost decided against calling Sophia while planning our trip to Burghausen. I had not talked to her in ages — I feared maybe she had forgotten about our friendship. But I am glad that I called her.
Key Message: Never hesitate to reach out to an old friend to reinvigorate your friendship and make new memories!
Have you ever connected or thought of reuniting with a friend after a long time? How was your experience?
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