avatarFrancesca Dallaglio

Summary

The article suggests that individuals should identify and address their personal "leaking points" to prevent the loss of their energy and power.

Abstract

The metaphor of finding leaks in inflatable toys before a seaside trip is used to illustrate the importance of identifying personal weaknesses or "energy leaks." The author, Francesca Dallaglio, encourages self-reflection to understand the nature of these leaks, why they occur, and how to repair them. The process involves putting oneself in a position to clearly see and comprehend the source of these leaks to prevent the loss of personal power. The article concludes with a call to action, urging readers to take control and fix their leaking points to preserve their energy.

Opinions

  • The author believes that self-awareness is key to identifying and understanding personal vulnerabilities.
  • There is an emphasis on the need to actively engage in self-assessment to locate areas of energy loss.
  • The article implies that individuals possess the innate ability to recognize and mend their own leaks, suggesting a level of self-efficacy.
  • The author suggests that ignoring these leaks is not an option; one must be proactive in addressing them to maintain personal strength.
  • The piece responds to a prompt by Diana C. about owning the places where one's power leaks out, indicating agreement with this concept.

Find Your Leaking Points

So that you can close them

Photo by Courtney Moore on Unsplash

When I was little, every year before going to the sea with my family, we took all of our inflatable toys and put them in a bucket full of water.

This allowed us to identify if there were any holes in them, and repair them with silicone.

If there was a leak, the air would come out of the toy and form a bubble trail in the water, so that we could see exactly where the leaking point was.

And, I think, this system can work for people, too.

We need to identify where our leaking points are, in order to understand their nature and fix them.

We can’t proceed blind, we need to put ourselves in a situation in which we can see and comprehend exactly how a leak has formed, why, and how to repair it, in order to stop the energy leak.

Only you know how to do that. How to find them, and how to close them. Deep, down, you know you do.

So do it.

Identify your energy leaks, because that’s the only way you will be able to stop your own power from slipping away from you.

In response to Diana C.: Owning the very places I leak out my own power

© Francesca Dallaglio, 2021

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