Finances Don’t Matter, Gen Z Are Obsessed with Thier Loneliness
People just need someone to talk to about anything.

When will we stop talking about how younger generations “waste” cash?
Millennials and Gen Zs have learned to cut people off to protect their mental health. It’s a harsh solution to other people’s unwillingness to change. The consequences are still dire for mental health. I have even seen crazy careers created because of loneliness.
- Smile trainers
- Remote friends
- Baby name consultants
- Virtual girlfriends/boyfriends.
You see, it’s crazy to watch these occupations spring up. But when thousands have no one to talk to, you realize society looks different.
Why don’t younger people just make friends? Like you, I have asked this question. But the answers are reasonable. Most young people rent — moving is a constant. Then, there’s the issue of everyone wanting to stay indoors. When will individuals meet strangers, if they avoid neighbors, work commutes, and malls?
It’s all a mess.
But for now, finances are far from many minds. As the younger generations juggle more pressing, hard-to-ignore needs.
- Heat
- Moving
- Aging parents
- Economic changes
- Constant court and political shifts
- Singleness and lack of friendships
All these contribute to the increase in mental health and loneliness in the GenZ population.
Gen Z and Loneliness
Gen Z, the generation born between the late 1990s and 2010s, is facing high levels of loneliness. Studies show that Gen Z reports feeling lonelier than previous generations. There are many reasons why Gen Z is struggling with loneliness and ways they can cope.
Why is Gen Z so lonely?
Research shows that Gen Z reports higher rates of feeling lonely compared to older generations. A study by Common Sense Media found that 54% of teens say they sometimes or always feel alone or left out. There are a few main reasons contributing to Gen Z’s high levels of loneliness:
Technology use — Though technology connects people, for Gen Z it can exacerbate feelings of isolation. Many teens spend 5–7 hours a day on social media and texting. While this keeps them somewhat connected, it lacks the depth of in-person interactions. Seeing curated highlights of others’ lives on social media can make teens feel left out of meaningful connections. Excessive screen time also competes with opportunities for face-to-face socializing, leaving many Gen Zers longing for real human interaction.
Less in-person socializing — Gen Z spends less time hanging out with friends compared to previous generations. Between school, activities, homework and screen time, they have less free time to socialize in person. Many teens report rarely seeing their friends outside of school. The pandemic has further limited opportunities for socializing at school, sports and extracurriculars over the past two years, leaving many Gen Zers socially isolated for long periods of time.
Rising mental health issues — Rates of depression and anxiety have been steadily climbing among Gen Z. These issues can cause teens to withdraw socially and exacerbate feelings of loneliness and isolation. Around 37% of teens report experiencing persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness. Depression and social anxiety often prevent teens from seeking out social interactions, trapping them in a cycle of worsening loneliness and isolation.
Ways to cope with loneliness.
If you’re feeling lonely, there are strategies that can help. Here are some effective ways Gen Zers can cope with feelings of loneliness:
Make an effort to connect — Reach out to friends or family, even just to say hello. Having meaningful conversations with others is important. One study found that people who talked to others for at least 10 minutes a day about something important reported feeling 41% less lonely. Schedule a video chat, phone call or meet up in person with friends or family members to connect.
Join an activity or club — Get involved in something that interests you where you’ll meet new people. Activities like sports teams, volunteer work, hobbies and school clubs are great options. One study found that participating in social activities 2–3 times per week was linked to feeling 39% less lonely. Making new friends through shared interests can help satisfy your need for social connection.
Talk to a trusted adult — Reach out to a parent, teacher, coach or other adult in your life. Often just talking about your feelings with someone who listens can help relieve loneliness. They may also have advice to offer. One study found that teens who had at least one trusted adult in their life reported feeling 28% less lonely.
Limit screen time — Try setting limits on how much time you spend on social media and devices. Instead, fill some of that time with in-person social activities. One study found that teens who spent less than 2 hours per day on screens reported feeling 33% less lonely compared to those who spent more than 4 hours per day.
Focus on self-care — Do things that make you feel good like exercising, journaling, meditating or pursuing a hobby. Improving your overall wellbeing can boost your mood and social confidence. One study found that teens who engaged in self-care activities 5 times per week reported feeling 24% less lonely.
Hopefully these tips, backed by research, help! Remember, loneliness is common but also temporary. Try different strategies and keep reaching out to others — you’ll find ways to feel more connected and less alone.






