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The website content discusses the importance of balancing feminine and masculine energies within an individual for personal wholeness and healthy external relationships.

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The article titled "Feminine and masculine - balance and imbalance" emphasizes the necessity of acknowledging, healing, and balancing the feminine and masculine aspects within oneself. It describes the feminine aspect as our connection to the unseen world of energy, feelings, and intuition, which operates beyond the five senses and linear time. In contrast, the masculine aspect is associated with logical thinking and action-taking, processing information received from the feminine aspect to interact with the physical world. The text provides an example of a balanced interaction, where the feminine senses energy and the masculine sets boundaries, and an imbalanced interaction, where wounds in either aspect lead to ignoring feelings or overthinking. The author advocates for the harmonious communication and cooperation of both aspects to achieve inner wholeness and, by extension, foster healthy relationships and societies.

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  • The feminine aspect is crucial for sensing energy and feelings that are not immediately explainable by logic.
  • The masculine aspect is important for processing information and taking action based on the feminine's sensory input.
  • A balanced interplay between the feminine and masculine aspects is vital for personal well-being and healthy interactions with others.
  • Wounded or imbalanced feminine and masculine aspects can lead to denial of feelings or excessive rationalization, respectively.
  • Self-awareness and inner balance are foundational for creating healthy relationships and societies.
  • The author believes that external co-creation of the world is a reflection of our internal states and that every external experience originates within ourselves.
  • The author offers further engagement through their website, newsletter, coaching, and mentoring sessions to assist individuals in their personal development journey.

Feminine and masculine - balance and imbalance

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Why is it so important to access, heal and balance feminine and masculine aspects within?

In short, feminine aspect within us connects us with the unseen worlds, the world of energy. Something that we can’t perceive with our 5 senses, but we can feel it. Our feelings are signs coming through our body from the unseen worlds.

It is those moments when you feel something, but don’t know yet what it is, your mind hasn’t figured it out as logical thinking is linear and therefore connected with time, so it needs time to process information and then take action.

The masculine aspect within us, in short, connects us with logical thinking and taking actions after picking up the energetic unseen information through the feminine aspect. Based on our internal software, the information is being processed and action is taken.

Let me give you an example from daily life.

A healthy/ balanced way both aspects work is:

When you don’t feel comfortable around someone or that contact with this person drains your energy, you have a “strange” feeling after being in contact with that person, this is your feminine side sensing the energy of that person. You don’t know what it is, as, at a first glance, the person seems nice, smiling, maybe even saying nice words. You just feel it.

Then, your logical mind tries to find solutions to solve this issue. There are various ways depending on the situation, but let’s say it could be: stop meeting this person, limit the contact if you can’t quit it completely or immediately, have a conversation (if you find it reasonable). It is your masculine setting healthy boundaries, protecting you from harmful experiences.

When feminine and masculine are wounded/ imbalanced it could work as follows:

You have the same feelings as above, but your feminine is wounded. You may ignore those feelings, you may be swept away by the emotions you experience. When you ignore your feelings, you deny your feminine, when you are swept away by the emotions, you deny your masculine.

When you deny your feelings, your masculine may be overthinking and over rationalising the situation, trying to find solution. When overthinking, it creates many possible scenarios and none of them might be real. When over rationalizing, it might be under influence of the external, often societal patterns as it denies the own inner knowing.

This is one short example of how it works.

Balance means both aspects communicating and cooperating with one another, not rejecting or denying one or another. We need both to experience our wholeness.

Love is being whole ☯️💚

How are your masculine and feminine today?

I truly believe that how we co-create the world together, depends on who and how we are within ourselves. The creation comes from within. This is not just talking, it is science.

I love encouraging other people to reflect and understand themselves on deeper levels as I believe every experience in the so-called external reality starts within ourselves. When we are aware of ourselves, we create healthy relationships with others and therefore, healthy societies.

I am a Life & Business Coach and Business Mentor and I would be happy to share more with you through my website. Feel free to sign up for a Newsletter there to track news and events. You are welcome to book a coaching or mentoring session with me or a free 30 mins call if you need guidance in your life changes. You will find my contact details here.

I believe we can make this world a beautiful place again together 🌍💚

Thank you for reading my posts, for every comment, and for being connected.

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