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Summary

The article emphasizes the importance of showing extra love and attention to senior citizens, particularly during challenging times such as a global pandemic and potential war.

Abstract

The article "Is There a Senior Citizen that You Can Show Some Extra Love?" by Justiss Goode on Medium underscores the significance of valuing elderly loved ones. It suggests that society often overlooks seniors, neglecting their emotional well-being, especially in times of crisis. The author, who identifies as a Baby Boomer, reflects on the life experiences of older adults and the milestone of reaching an advanced age. The piece encourages readers to strengthen relationships with senior family members, noting that even small gestures of love and companionship can have a profound impact. It also addresses the emotional sensitivity of seniors, including those with mental health conditions, and the need for connection even when recognition may be uncertain. The author advocates for reaching out to elderly individuals, acknowledging their contributions, and providing support during difficult times.

Opinions

  • Society tends to take seniors for granted or even write them off, which is a disservice to their contributions and emotional needs.
  • It is crucial to engage with older loved ones, not just physically and mentally, but also emotionally, to ensure they do not feel alone.
  • The current global challenges, such as the threat of war and the ongoing pandemic, make it even more important to show love and attention to seniors.
  • The author believes that life is too short, especially for the elderly, to delay mending relationships or showing appreciation.
  • Even when seniors struggle with mental conditions, they can still benefit from the emotional presence of their loved ones.
  • The article suggests that readers should not only focus on their immediate family but also consider reaching out to other seniors who might need companionship.
  • The author encourages readers to act now, emphasizing that the world's current state of turmoil makes the need for human connection even more pressing.

Is There a Senior Citizen that You Can Show Some Extra Love?

Stop taking your elderly loved ones for granted!

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Have you ever stopped to think about the changes, challenges, and decades of life lessons that most senior citizens have experienced?

Maybe you’re an older adult yourself (like me), so you realize what an achievement it is just to still be living and breathing.

Actually, people are living much longer than they once did, so there are seniors a lot older than me — I’ll be 64 this year. We Boomers are still around; and many of us are continuing to work and live a very productive and active life.

All too often, society tends to take seniors for granted, if not write us off entirely. It’s a terrible thing for an elderly person to feel like they’re living their last days alone.

It’s bad enough when this happens in general, but in times like we’re currently living, this can be especially painful for senior citizens to deal with.

That is why it is so important to check in on older loved ones and make sure they’re okay, not just physically and mentally, but emotionally.

More than likely, you have a senior citizen in your life that you could take the time to give some special attention to, during this time.

What better time to reach out, then when the world is staring at the possibility of war, and a global pandemic that continues to linger.

Consider the following points…

A little love and attention goes a long way

There are lots of things that you can take time to engage in, to show a senior a little extra love and attention.

It’s not so much about what you do, it’s about focusing on the relationship between you and the individual.

For instance:

Is your relationship with a senior citizen in your family on shaky ground? What better time to examine that relationship and try to do something to improve it? Life is short, and especially for seniors, so do what you can NOW.

Maybe you don’t have any seniors in your immediate family, or in your family circle at all. There is always some worthy older adult somewhere, that you can spend a little time with and be a companion to.

This is about one thing, and that’s to show love and support to the elderly individuals in your life, who may be having a difficult time of things, whether you realize it or not.

Even when much older senior citizens are struggling with conditions that affect their mind and mental capacity, many are still sensitive to the feelings and emotions in those around them.

With the world going as crazy as it is, how could they not?

Final Thoughts

If you’re an imperfect human being like the rest of us, there are probably people, places and things that you take for granted every day.

It’s usually not something you plan to do, it just happens, but once someone brings it to your attention, you no longer have an excuse.

  • Did this story prick your conscious or simply remind you about an elderly loved one you need to call?
  • Is there an older adult in your life that you’ve been taking for granted, and failing to let them know they’re appreciated?
  • Do you have a senior citizen in your life who is no longer able to connect with you mentally?

Maybe there’s someone that is so dear to you that it’s hard to go and visit them when you know or think they don’t recognize you.

Hopefully, after reading this, you’ll be prompted to visit them anyway; just to let them know that you’re there and you can, even though the world is a scary place right now.

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