Everything happens because of you

Everything in the world has its own destiny.
Kazuo Inamori has a motto: “If the heart does not call for things, things will not arrive.”
In his opinion, everything that happens to him has something to do with his heart.
No matter what circumstances you encounter, good or bad, they are all of your own making.
The older you grow, the more you understand that life does not happen in a vacuum. Everything you experience in life actually comes because of you.
01 Everything you encounter, whether good or bad, is what you attract.
I have seen such a picture.

A person who always says “I don’t” to himself and denies himself in his heart can only linger at the bottom;
And when he learns to affirm himself and say “I can do it” silently in everything, he will be able to reach the top step by step.
All good luck in this world is not accidental. The gifts that fate gives you are actually earned by yourself.
After graduating from university, writer Alex chose to stay in Beijing and work.
In his spare time, he insists on reading and blogging.
Colleagues felt that this persistence was meaningless, and they all ridiculed him: “If you don’t publish a book, why should you write a blog?”
But Alex always believes that those seemingly unimportant and useless things will make him better and attract better things.
Later, his career encountered a bottleneck and he could not get out of the trough for a long time, and his blog stopped updating for a long time.
A fan who had been following him for two years sent him a message asking why, and Alex told him his troubles.
Unexpectedly, the next day, fans came from abroad to take advantage of the holiday. The two chatted happily as soon as they met, and the fans also gave Alex a lot of useful suggestions.
Since then, Alex seems to have been connected to the two channels of Ren and Du, solved the problem at hand, and his career has become smoother and smoother.
One day, he couldn’t help but ask his fans, why should they help him?
The fan said: “I like your blog very much, and I am also moved and attracted by your persistence. If you happen to be able to help at that time, you can be considered as helping yourself.”
After hearing this, Alex couldn’t help but sigh:
You really have to believe in the possibilities that are everywhere, especially in a society where everyone has the potential to become a legend.
Many of us have experienced moments like this in our lives:
I have read a lot of books, but my life has not improved, so I feel that studying has no effect;
I keep exercising every day, but my figure is still mediocre. I don’t know the meaning of self-discipline;
I want to use my free time to improve myself, but my progress is too small, and I gradually deny myself from the bottom of my heart…
As a result, through reverse brainwashing over and over again, your attraction to good things becomes less and less.
The book “The Secret” says:
The Law of Attraction can be practiced, and if you understand this secret, you may be able to do what you want;
When you learn this secret, you will know how to have, be, or do what you want.
In fact, everything in the world obeys the law of attraction.
If you think negatively, you will naturally not be able to get the results you want.
Only by maintaining mindfulness can you absorb more goodness into your life.
Everything that happens in this world happens for a reason. If you practice your own attractiveness, good things will naturally find you.
02 Your encounters in life, whether high or low, all have a cause and effect.
Writer Li Xiaolai said: “The current status quo is the accumulation of the past.”
If you are in a difficult situation now, perhaps it is laziness in the past that paints a difficult future for you;
If surprises occasionally appear in life, it is not for nothing, but because you have achieved qualitative changes through the accumulation of quantitative changes.
In this life, all encounters are traceable.
Whether your life is good or bad all depends on how you manage yourself.
Jobs once talked about two of his experiences in his speech.
The first experience was when he decided to drop out of college after six months.
After losing his student status, he could only sleep on the floor of his classmates’ dormitory and make a living by collecting bottles. His life was very difficult.
But fortunately, he was finally able to sit in on the courses he liked and took a calligraphy class.
Later, he started his own business. When he was designing computer typesetting, he had an idea and incorporated the artistic calligraphy he learned in calligraphy class.
This design was liked by many people, and his career reached its peak.
The second experience occurred when he was 30 years old when he was fired from Apple, the company he founded.
After being depressed for a while, he began to realize that he was just fired, but he could still engage in a career he loved.
So he devoted himself to work with passion, founded NeXT company, and met his beloved wife.
Soon after, Apple acquired NeXT, and he returned to Apple, achieving a win-win situation for his career and family.
He lamented in his speech: “You have to believe in something, intuition, destiny, life, cause and effect.
Because if you believe that these dots will connect your future path, you will have the confidence to follow your heart.
Even if your choices are not recognized by the mainstream, it will make all the difference. ”

There is a saying in Buddhism that everything is empty except cause and effect.
Your current encounters are both the result of past accumulation and the cause of your future.
Manage your current life well. What you did in March and April will have answers in July and August.
Before Yu Hua became famous, he also experienced a period of hardship.
During that time, his manuscripts were often returned, and some were even thrown back into the yard.
Some people advised him to give up, but Yu Hua refused to compromise.
Every time a manuscript was rejected, he would study the reasons for the rejection and find a lower-level publishing house to submit the manuscript to.
No matter how many failures he experienced, Yu Hua never stopped writing.
In the end, he became famous with “Alive” and became a writer loved by countless readers.
Kazuo Inamori said:
“Cause and effect must be rewarded, but it takes time. Don’t be anxious because you don’t see results for a while. The important thing is to be tireless and persevere on weekdays. ”
Life is like this, the ups and downs of circumstances are nothing but causes and consequences;
And the good and bad situations are always changing, it depends on how you choose.
There are few unexpected good things in life. Only by continuing to work hard can you accumulate great achievements and achieve great success.
Manage your own causes well, and the results will naturally not let you down.

03 Your destiny is all of your own making.
Zweig once said:
“It’s just an idea when you are young to regard chance and fate as the same. After a long time, you will naturally find that the trajectory of life is caused by yourself.”
When it comes to things that happen in our lives, many of us chalk it up to coincidence or luck.
But when I look back, I realize that the brush of fate is never in the hands of others, and the path of your life is entirely up to you.
Writer Wang Xin wrote such a picture.
When he was in junior high school, one of his favorite things was to read “The Complete Works of San Mao” on the overpass of a nearby abandoned factory.
At that time, he was thin and did not like sports or playing games. He only learned about the bigger world outside from one book after another.
He was full of yearning for literature, and the seeds of writing quietly took root and sprouted in his heart.
After graduating from college, he entered the media industry as a copywriter. It didn’t take long for him to become famous, and his career gradually rose.
Many people lamented his good luck and felt that good things always happened to him.
But what everyone doesn’t know is:
He spent many sleepless mornings immersed in reading; countless lonely and uncomfortable nights, he wrote furiously.
His success did not come from chance, but slowly moved forward along the trajectory set when he was 14 years old, and finally reached the other side of his ideal.
Romain Rolland said:
“Destiny does not exist in one-hour decisions, but in long hours of effort, trial, and obscure work.”
The gears of fate often start turning at some inadvertent moment.
You made important friends, read words that touched your heart, and wrote down the name of a certain major on your application list…
This creates a starting point, which slowly extends forward to draw the blueprint of life.
There are no coincidences in this world, what you see is just the inevitable that accumulates over time.
Blogger LiKu was just a junior programmer when he joined Baidu.
During a casual chat, a senior gave him a suggestion:
“You are 25 years old now. If you spend 5 years learning databases, you will become an expert in this field by the age of 30. So why don’t you do it?”
One word made him enlightened.
After that, he squeezed out all his time to study, researching data in the company during the day, and staying up late at night to read professional books.
In just three years, he was promoted to three levels in a row. Not only did he become an expert in this field, he also received the coveted high salary.
I heard a saying that only 10% of life is destined, and the other 90% is written by yourself.
As the designer of destiny, every step in your life has your own unique trajectory.
The direction you set out in comes from your own choice;
How much you gain depends entirely on your previous efforts.
No road in this life is in vain. If you climb mountains that need to be climbed and cross rivers that need to be crossed, your future will definitely be smooth.
“Book of Changes” says: “Everything in the world has its own destiny.”
Many things in life do not appear out of thin air.
It originates from our thoughts, follows established rules, and is also a necessary experience for being a human being.
If you want good things to happen in your life, you need to project more kindness into the world and send out more righteous thoughts in your heart.