Envy Is Not The Same As Jealousy
both emotions have a low vibration…

I know that there are a lot of life couches and people who advise you to change the vibration, look positively, visualize better ... I do the same thing, I just need to simplify things a bit. This does not mean that I am uninformed about the topic I am talking about, I just want to simplify it for you, so that you do not think about it a lot after the text, but receive the information immediately.
There is a big difference between these two emotions, but sometimes people do not separate them, so often when they feel envy they think they are jealous and when they feel jealous they think they feel envy.
Envy is an emotion that a person feels when he wants something that someone else has. At that moment, some people wake up with the Ego, which does not want to accept it. When we envy someone for a good appearance, a successful job, travel and in general the finances he has in abundance ... we then feel a negative emotion.
Why?
Because then, at that moment, we have the impression that we will never reach it and have it or that person does not deserve it.
What to do? Change your view!
Do not change your look by turning your head to the side and not looking at more successful and beautiful people :) On the contrary! Look at them but from a different angle and think to yourself:
“Yeah, look how much their love is, so it exists!"
“Yeah, they have a beautiful house and a car, wonderful! I’ll have that one day too!"
"Wow, how successful these people are in business! That’s what I deserve, that’s what I’m going to achieve!"
"Wow, these people have made their dreams come true! If they could, so can I!"
Let these people motivate you to achieve the same! High vibration and positive emotion will bring you closer to your goal!
When you look at them, don’t regret the situation you are in, but try to feel joy because you have just seen that it exists and that it is not impossible to achieve it!
These are the same people as you, they just made different decisions in life!
Let’s face it ... You don’t mind that person, you just want and like it, something that person owns! It would help a lot if you could find yourself in the company of these people and listen to the way they have achieved what they have now. Basically, all in all, negative emotion only comes from the way you look at the situation!
"The person you envy is no different from you in anything except that you have agreed to less!"

Jealousy is an emotion when a person feels a low vibration at the thought of losing something. This emotion is most often associated with partnerships. First, you need to know that you own nothing in life, especially not people, partners. This emotion is strongly related to anger. Usually, in a partner relationship when a feeling of jealousy occurs, this feeling is followed by an argument.
Why?
Because jealousy causes the lowest possible emotion in a person and that is the feeling of helplessness. Since it is not in man’s nature to be in that feeling of helplessness for long, the next feeling after the feeling of helplessness is anger.
Why does anger appear?
It is our ego that is to blame for this because it gives us a false sense of control.
So to simplify!
If there is a situation where you feel jealousy and then helplessness and you think to yourself "It’s over, I lost it, it will go to another ...", then the Ego enters the scene and to gain control, he becomes angry and gives you the feeling "I’m taking matters into my own hands hands "
I do not want to explain or write about situations where that Ego always leads us to ruin. Because when it comes, usually some words come out of us that we would not say and a situation arises that we would rather forget.
So try to understand that jealousy is a self-destructive feeling, that you can’t own people, that partners should be given freedom (not excessive freedom where they can do what they want and be with who they want) to decide for themselves whether to stay or not, to be what they are.
You’ll know best if someone would really be with you if you don’t hold them tight, if you let them go and make sure they really want to be there with you.
If you let them go and they’re still there, that’s true love!
Jealousy is not love, it is insecurity!
