Enough With the “You Should Write Every Day,” Advice
It’s not helpful
At least once a day (in recommended section) I get at least one Medium article containing the advice “you should write every day if you want to…”. It’s time to stop telling people that and make them feel small if they don’t get the chance to write that day because life gets in the way.
The reality is, writing every day is not possible or you write every day just not what Medium gurus want you to write.
I write every day, but not for Medium or my blog
I have a 9–5 job, and as many others do, I write around 20 emails per day (if it’s a slow day). I’m talking about serious emails you send to clients, bosses, or the financial unit. For each email, you have to think carefully about how to compose it, write everything you want as clearly as possible in as few words as possible. Which you won’t do for Medium or your blog, as you need at least 200 words for a story if not even more.
If we are planning an event, besides writing emails, I’ll write invitation letters. Even though I have a template, there are still paragraphs I need to write specifically for that person or/and event. I’m expected to deliver a media advisory for that event. And a news item for the website after the event. Both require careful and thoughtful writing. Just as you’ll do for Medium or blog.
If I’m finishing up a tender procedure or contracting a new provider for some service, I’m required to write a one-page justification for the choice of provider. Again, I need to think carefully about how to compose that just to make sense and to be clear enough with the possible audit in mind.
These are just some things I do that involve writing that is not for a platform. When I come home, yes I finally get to go to the office every day like in old times, I’m not always in the mood or in the inspiration to write something meaningful for Medium or my blog. In the best-case scenario, I’ll get an idea of what to write, which I’ll put in my Medium drafts folder, but rarely I’ll write the full story that moment.
When I get inspiration, I’ll get to writing straight away even if I’m at work. I’ll edit and publish later that day. I understand that behind most of those articles is the saying: practice, practice, practice and you’ll get your writing skills better. Which is ok, although not always true or possible.
I love photography. I don’t take photos every day for the same reason I don’t write for platforms every day. Sometimes I’m not in the mood, sometimes I don’t have inspiration and I don’t like to force things. But when I get inspiration, and all the pieces fit together with it (I have my gear, I have time, it’s the right places to do it), I’ll stop everything to snap some photos. I’m not a pro, but I can see my skills getting better even though I’m not doing it daily.
The same goes for writing. I don’t force it. Instead, I wait for the pieces to fit together and get my creative juices growing. It works for me, and maybe it works for someone else too.
Are my writing skills getting better even though I’m not writing every day? I’ll dare to say yes. I’m still far away from being a pro, but I’m getting there at my own pace. And I like it that way.
To conclude this rant, I’ll share some wise words:
do things at your own pace and your way and put the world on silent.
And for others who share the mentioned articles: don’t advise people to write every day because that works for you or you read it somewhere. Not everyone works the same way. Not everyone’s pace goes at the same speed.






