Embracing Resilience: The Journey of the Fearless

Brave people never fail; either they win or they learn something.

In my childhood, I didn’t have much courage to face any challenges or problems. I used to give up all the time without even trying once. However, my mother was very brave and had enough courage to face any challenges in her life. She used to tell me each time, after seeing my discouraging behavior,

“Why do you give up even without trying it once? Maybe this is something that can only be done by you. At least try it once.”

Throughout my childhood, I saw her facing any problems and challenges with a smiling face. I didn’t see any signs of tension on her head while going through a problematic phase.

What a brave lady she is….!!!!!!!!

I have learned a lot from her life, as I realized that no one promised that problems wouldn’t come in life. Life is a test, and trials are inevitable.

Are we going to stop living in fear of problems coming into our lives? No, right? Because problems are bound to come, so why not emerge stronger from them? The most important thing is that we do face those problems, but we often put on a mask and change our expressions to show others that yes, we have challenges.

Will others be able to perfectly solve your problems just by knowing about them? The answer is definitely “NO”. So why do people share their problems with others to such an extent that they become entirely dependent on them for a solution?

If we can’t find a solution, at least we will learn something from that trouble, which is no less than any reward.

In life, we often find ourselves in situations where we can’t speak to anyone or see any solution to our problems. However, I still believe that the first option of not telling anyone is the best. I would always suggest this because people often just enjoy our problems, and besides, if they do help once, they might refuse to help again, saying that this is their usual way of handling things, and you always bring your problems to them. It’s better to have patience, face it with effort, and most importantly, keep praying. Then, one day, you’ll find yourself overcoming that problem without even having to tell anyone. Because in this world, it doesn’t take long for people to make fun of you in both happiness and sorrow……